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<blockquote data-quote="Hypno" data-source="post: 1090108" data-attributes="member: 12416">I think you are onto something in that a person will find you more interesting if you are interested in them, and everyone enjoys talking about themselves.&nbsp; So communicating genuine interest in others is the first step. Dale Carnegie has a chapter on this.Candidly, I'm not very good at this part.&nbsp; Cold reading techniques and some of the old patterns and routines from the Game are helpful because they conveniently prompt others to talk about themselves.&nbsp; Then when you have some similar, its a natural segue for you to share your story.&nbsp; By timing it like this, your story complements her story rather than competes with it.However, its too much to say storytelling is a hoax.&nbsp; I have had a few things happen in my life that others find more interesting than me, and I have learned to look for opportunities to drop these stories into conversations and even embellish them.&nbsp; An example is that I used to have a stalker.&nbsp; She used to hide at bars and spy on me when I was out with other girls after we broke up.&nbsp; Then she would make a point of revealing herself to us at the end of the nigh.&nbsp; That was some of the best social proof I ever had, in a weird way.&nbsp; Women are fascinated that another woman would go to those lengths.&nbsp; And then I embellish, slightly.&nbsp; I let them ponder what could have had that effect, and then I suggest that I was probably the first guy to give her a G-spot orgasm.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Hypno, post: 1090108, member: 12416"] I think you are onto something in that a person will find you more interesting if you are interested in them, and everyone enjoys talking about themselves. So communicating genuine interest in others is the first step. Dale Carnegie has a chapter on this. Candidly, I'm not very good at this part. Cold reading techniques and some of the old patterns and routines from the Game are helpful because they conveniently prompt others to talk about themselves. Then when you have some similar, its a natural segue for you to share your story. By timing it like this, your story complements her story rather than competes with it. However, its too much to say storytelling is a hoax. I have had a few things happen in my life that others find more interesting than me, and I have learned to look for opportunities to drop these stories into conversations and even embellish them. An example is that I used to have a stalker. She used to hide at bars and spy on me when I was out with other girls after we broke up. Then she would make a point of revealing herself to us at the end of the nigh. That was some of the best social proof I ever had, in a weird way. Women are fascinated that another woman would go to those lengths. And then I embellish, slightly. I let them ponder what could have had that effect, and then I suggest that I was probably the first guy to give her a G-spot orgasm. [/QUOTE]

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