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<blockquote data-quote="crdr" data-source="post: 1090119" data-attributes="member: 11781"><p>What H1N1 is relaying is the right start. I have been writing since I was in grade 3. But started rigorously writing every day for the last 10 years. </p><p>I found what my true authentic calling was and followed through until it was realized. Mastery is infinite.</p><p>No matter what shitty job I had, you learn to listen to that little voice that the masses want you to ignore.</p><p>You'll wake up in automatic "Go Time" mode. </p><p></p><p>Caution though: Being interesting comes at a price. Chicks dig scars for a reason....</p><p>You can't just memorize wikipedia and be thought of as an interesting person. You have LIVE YOUR LIFE.</p><p></p><p>There's nothing like finding that set of hard-wired unique skill(s)you are truly meant do on this planet; How you will adapt and survive.</p><p>You have to find what evolution has planned for you and nurture it. LeBron James is a skilled basketball player but probably couldn't negotiate his own contract.... </p><p></p><p>I always recommend going back in time when you were very young and free and see what truly made you happy then.</p><p></p><p>Another myth about being interesting is thinking that the better the conversationalist you are the more interesting you are. I am a Master Conversationalist. </p><p>The #1 Law of Conversation is: Intentional Listening! I know many valuable contacts who don't know my first name. But I know what squadron they served in 1970.</p><p>In reality, no one really cares about you. They care about themselves and find you MORE INTERESTING if you can listen and understand their conversation...</p><p></p><p>In short, when you're happy, you're more interesting. Interesting is state of mind rather than a hard skill. I know this because I know some people who think I'm an ignorant fuck-face.</p><p>Can't please everyone... But happiness and being interesting is a 110% commitment.</p><p></p><p>The chicks I get pick up on this. Because this is a high form of confidence. Who has more confidence? The artist/writer who slaved away for decades honing his craft or some Wage Slave who does his "hobby" on the weekends?</p><p></p><p>TL;DR: Listen to yourself and listen to others. You will find yourself more interesting and then others will find you interesting because you find them interesting.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="crdr, post: 1090119, member: 11781"] What H1N1 is relaying is the right start. I have been writing since I was in grade 3. But started rigorously writing every day for the last 10 years. I found what my true authentic calling was and followed through until it was realized. Mastery is infinite. No matter what shitty job I had, you learn to listen to that little voice that the masses want you to ignore. You'll wake up in automatic "Go Time" mode. Caution though: Being interesting comes at a price. Chicks dig scars for a reason.... You can't just memorize wikipedia and be thought of as an interesting person. You have LIVE YOUR LIFE. There's nothing like finding that set of hard-wired unique skill(s)you are truly meant do on this planet; How you will adapt and survive. You have to find what evolution has planned for you and nurture it. LeBron James is a skilled basketball player but probably couldn't negotiate his own contract.... I always recommend going back in time when you were very young and free and see what truly made you happy then. Another myth about being interesting is thinking that the better the conversationalist you are the more interesting you are. I am a Master Conversationalist. The #1 Law of Conversation is: Intentional Listening! I know many valuable contacts who don't know my first name. But I know what squadron they served in 1970. In reality, no one really cares about you. They care about themselves and find you MORE INTERESTING if you can listen and understand their conversation... In short, when you're happy, you're more interesting. Interesting is state of mind rather than a hard skill. I know this because I know some people who think I'm an ignorant fuck-face. Can't please everyone... But happiness and being interesting is a 110% commitment. The chicks I get pick up on this. Because this is a high form of confidence. Who has more confidence? The artist/writer who slaved away for decades honing his craft or some Wage Slave who does his "hobby" on the weekends? TL;DR: Listen to yourself and listen to others. You will find yourself more interesting and then others will find you interesting because you find them interesting. [/QUOTE]
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