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<blockquote data-quote="Dalaran1991" data-source="post: 1090135" data-attributes="member: 6381">Everyday I get reminded of how some guys who really suck with women actually have much more interesting lifestyle and life experience than I do. It really comes down to being able to sell yourself, or bullshitting and it worked on &quot;higher&quot; quality women too. I second storytelling, but utlimately it comes down to this: you are interesting if you can make people feel like they are interesting and important.That's really all there is to it, you dont need bullshit marketing/business degree to know this truth.So when you are telling your story, you must elicit strong emotion in your audience, and you must make them want to be a part of your story.For girls this translate into making her want to be on an &quot;adventure&quot; with you.I do salsa/bachata dancing too and TBH I'm an average dancer, yet girls love dancing with me because I make them feel good. In contrast there's a guy I know who is 10x better dancer, but girls avoid him because he makes them feel like they are noobs. No girl ever wants to be with a guy who makes them feel inferior.It's getting harder because people and girls notably nowadays are looking for stimulation and instant gratification, instead of experience. So your story telling has less hook than it was before. It always just comes down to being a better saleman of your own self.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Dalaran1991, post: 1090135, member: 6381"] Everyday I get reminded of how some guys who really suck with women actually have much more interesting lifestyle and life experience than I do. It really comes down to being able to sell yourself, or bullshitting and it worked on "higher" quality women too. I second storytelling, but utlimately it comes down to this: you are interesting if you can make people feel like they are interesting and important. That's really all there is to it, you dont need bullshit marketing/business degree to know this truth. So when you are telling your story, you must elicit strong emotion in your audience, and you must make them want to be a part of your story. For girls this translate into making her want to be on an "adventure" with you. I do salsa/bachata dancing too and TBH I'm an average dancer, yet girls love dancing with me because I make them feel good. In contrast there's a guy I know who is 10x better dancer, but girls avoid him because he makes them feel like they are noobs. No girl ever wants to be with a guy who makes them feel inferior. It's getting harder because people and girls notably nowadays are looking for stimulation and instant gratification, instead of experience. So your story telling has less hook than it was before. It always just comes down to being a better saleman of your own self. [/QUOTE]

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