mastauser said:CThunder86 said:I agree that too many people focus on saving and being lane while not enjoying their 20s
I think there exists a kind of paradox on the forum: on the one hand what you say in the above (enjoying 20s), and at the other hand the desire to not be a slave in the 30s (so gotta work in 20s)
It's a complicated paradox. Or does it represent opinions that are too different?
This topic has been done to death, but this seems like a false dichotomy. I know 20s/30s are prime time for chasing snatch, but I've never understood the massive discounting of one's 40s/50s/60s (and nowadays 70s/80s as well, what with current health knowledge and medical technologies).
Sure, you could get hit by a bus tomorrow. Life is short and unpredictable, you gotta live in the moment, I get it. But if you're in the "live your 20s like a pauper so you can enjoy your 30s like a prince" camp, you really ought to be extending that way past your 30s.
If you dedicate your 20s to stacking paper (say, 80% of free time/money/energy goes towards $$$, with the other 20% going towards women, which is about what I'm doing), there's really no reason you couldn't set yourself up for life. Whether it's running your own business, starting a few and selling them, or investing in a solid portfolio, if you're going to sacrifice such a large chunk of such an important decade, you really ought to make it last the rest of your life.
The question shouldn't be, "Is it worth sacrificing your 20s to enjoy your 30s?" it's "Is it worth sacrificing your 20s to set yourself up for life?"