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This came up in a discussion with a savvy forum member, with a few extra details. Let's say for a general guideline, you are in the age bracket 30-45.
Great answer. In particular, this part. The mid to late 20s bracket for women separates the wheat from the chaff. The problem for the girls whose SMV just wasn't that high is that the modern world takes them out of the game entirely by not allowing them to capitalize at least on youth at age 18-23, which adds a least a point to their SMV. I have seen girls who were easy 6s at that age that by 30 and beyond, the combination of aging, weight, and being fairly average to begin with just destroys any chance they have at all with someone who isn't lower than them SMV wise. And of course they still think a guy who is a 7 at age 30+ has any interest in them ... and they won't date 50 year olds. LOLMid 20s is a sweet spot. By that age any sane woman would have already decided if she wants a family, and a stable LTR, or double down on academia (get a PhD) and/or climb further the corporate ladder. I excluded non college going women, since by the age of 25 these are usually (even here in Germany) already done with an apprenticeship, and are settled down with a stable guy.
Average to homely women are the biggest victims of feminism. But of course, the idea that they could somehow raise their SMV through college, career, and money is an alluring escape from reality. Attractive women have a decade or more to jump ship and change course. The sad thing, it seems when these average women discover the lies they merely double down to sabotage the next generations.Great answer. In particular, this part. The mid to late 20s bracket for women separates the wheat from the chaff. The problem for the girls whose SMV just wasn't that high is that the modern world takes them out of the game entirely by not allowing them to capitalize at least on youth at age 18-23, which adds a least a point to their SMV. I have seen girls who were easy 6s at that age that by 30 and beyond, the combination of aging, weight, and being fairly average to begin with just destroys any chance they have at all with someone who isn't lower than them SMV wise. And of course they still think a guy who is a 7 at age 30+ has any interest in them ... and they won't date 50 year olds. LOL
I don't have a strong stance on this question. But since you're likely asking this for yourself, let me flip the question on you. What would the five years from 25-30 look like for you if you were to marry at 30 instead of 25?For those of you thinking about (or who have achieved) marriage and kids, what would you say is the difference between getting married at 25 and say, 30?
Let me be more clear: say you get married at one of those ages, and let's assume you're still married at 45. How is your life different, and how was it different, if you married at 25 vs. if you married at 30?
I am 40 and 27ish is where I draw the line for something long term.... I have pretty much only been "bible studying" with college age girls my whole life.
Do you mean to ask what the first five years of marriage is like? I think it's substantially better if you marry at 25 vs. 30. The sex is better, quite frankly. I'm not saying that sex with a 30-35 year old woman is bad. I'm just say that if you pick a specific example of a woman in that age range, and then compare her to her 25 year old self, the younger version is better.What would the five years from 25-30 look like for you if you were to marry at 30 instead of 25?
For those of you thinking about (or who have achieved) marriage and kids, what would you say is the difference between getting married at 25 and say, 30?
Let me be more clear: say you get married at one of those ages, and let's assume you're still married at 45. How is your life different, and how was it different, if you married at 25 vs. if you married at 30?