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When people say being a nice guy is bad, what do they mean?
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<blockquote data-quote="AneroidOcean" data-source="post: 1283105" data-attributes="member: 4406"><p>WRONG!</p><p></p><p>They do NOT want a nice guy. They just don't want a guy with ZERO niceness in him (although some broken women will still go for this)</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>WRONG!</p><p></p><p>The above statement is NOT the antithesis of a nice guy. A guy who is not a "nice guy" can still have humor and not take themselves crazy seriously. Just like a guy who is not a "nice guy" can be a rough/rude person, very direct, very unapologetic and still be VERY attractive to women.</p><p></p><p>You are fundamentally misunderstanding what women mean when they want a nice guy. They want a decent guy, an INTERESTING guy, not a doormat/people pleaser.</p><p></p><p>There's a huge divide between doormat/people pleaser and what women are attracted to. Then there's a far smaller divide between that and a complete asshole/psychopath.</p><p></p><p>You can't really be a "nice guy" putting yourself first. It doesn't mean you have to be a psychopath, but you have to be FAR from a nice guy to truly put yourself first.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AneroidOcean, post: 1283105, member: 4406"] WRONG! They do NOT want a nice guy. They just don't want a guy with ZERO niceness in him (although some broken women will still go for this) WRONG! The above statement is NOT the antithesis of a nice guy. A guy who is not a "nice guy" can still have humor and not take themselves crazy seriously. Just like a guy who is not a "nice guy" can be a rough/rude person, very direct, very unapologetic and still be VERY attractive to women. You are fundamentally misunderstanding what women mean when they want a nice guy. They want a decent guy, an INTERESTING guy, not a doormat/people pleaser. There's a huge divide between doormat/people pleaser and what women are attracted to. Then there's a far smaller divide between that and a complete asshole/psychopath. You can't really be a "nice guy" putting yourself first. It doesn't mean you have to be a psychopath, but you have to be FAR from a nice guy to truly put yourself first. [/QUOTE]
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