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<blockquote data-quote="LoveBug" data-source="post: 1283107" data-attributes="member: 3688">I don’t understand why you can’t be nice and put yourself first either... For instance, I have super high standards for the women I engage with (unicorn for LTR, and in the past low notch/amiable/accessorizing girls only for STR), and the first iota of nonsense and she is out the door. That’s not to say that when I find the right girls I’m not a chill, no drama, empathetic and otherwise nice guy. I think what women are attracted to is self assurance, be it in nice guys or a holes, is what it boils down to. Nice guys with assurance aren’t afraid to unapologetically pursue what they want etc as well. A lot of faux “nice guys” are just pusses who have no self confidence so they come off as doormats, but may or may not be truly nice at their core. Women IMO are attracted to the gamut of self assured guys, nice to a hole, but I’ll say it again, the ones attracted to a-holes are IMO the ones with issues who are less likely to engage in quality relations anyways</blockquote>

[QUOTE="LoveBug, post: 1283107, member: 3688"] I don’t understand why you can’t be nice and put yourself first either... For instance, I have super high standards for the women I engage with (unicorn for LTR, and in the past low notch/amiable/accessorizing girls only for STR), and the first iota of nonsense and she is out the door. That’s not to say that when I find the right girls I’m not a chill, no drama, empathetic and otherwise nice guy. I think what women are attracted to is self assurance, be it in nice guys or a holes, is what it boils down to. Nice guys with assurance aren’t afraid to unapologetically pursue what they want etc as well. A lot of faux “nice guys” are just pusses who have no self confidence so they come off as doormats, but may or may not be truly nice at their core. Women IMO are attracted to the gamut of self assured guys, nice to a hole, but I’ll say it again, the ones attracted to a-holes are IMO the ones with issues who are less likely to engage in quality relations anyways [/QUOTE]

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