Which are the best dating apps for finding a wife in Europe or Asia?

Papaya

Crow
Gold Member
The problems with generalities is, that well they're generalities.

I have a friend from college who met his wife, and mother of their 3 children, in a Miami club at 3am. She was 19 yo (with a fake ID) and a virgin (from a very conservative Cuban family).

Go figure

Likely to find wife material on Tinder? Probably not statistically high.

But is it possible?

Yes
 

Garuda

Woodpecker
The new hot app in SE Asia is a tinder clone out of Singapore called Paktor. Otherwise, it's country specific like Filipino Cupid, Indonesian Cupid and so on. It's best to just go over there and meet them though.
 
Rob Banks said:
Are you seriously arguing that all girls on dating apps (such as Tinder) are not looking for sexual relationships?

What are they looking for, platonic friendships with random men?

And if they aren't looking for sexual relationships, what exactly are you trying to get from talking to them?

I argued all girls on dating apps AND in bars doesn't need to look for a sexual relationship. If you don't remember I wrote "this is ridicilous" when you or someone else compared girls on dating app to the ones going to bars.

I will stop now since you are just starting to twist words.

Edit: You should be carefull when you are looking for a wife, either its on a dating app, in a bar or anywhere in general. I dont think you have to let a girl go just because you met a girl on a dating app or in a bar, as long you dont have a clear reason/feeling for it.
 

tjh14

Newbie
Rob Banks said:
I wouldn't recommend any dating apps for finding a wife.

It's like going to a bar or club to try and find a wife.

Dating Apps work, IF you are actually in the country. There should be a Boots on the ground rule about using them. That way, you can go meet them in person. You can't tell online if there is any chemistry. Besides lots of women use dating apps as a source of revenue, relying on sad stories to extort money from delusional, lovesick fools. I know 4 guys who met their wives on ChineseLoveLinks, but they were actually working in China.
 

Rob Banks

Pelican
↑ Yeah, I'm sour about how bad all the girls are on the dating apps I never use.

It's not really my business what methods other men use to try and find a wife, but to ask Which are the best dating apps for finding a wife...? is kind of like asking "What brand of cigarettes should I smoke to improve my lung health?" or " What fast food chain should I work at if I want to get rich?"
 

La Águila Negra

Kingfisher
Rob you just killed that poor man

And I have never heard of ChineseLoveLinks despite living in the country for over 4 years. What in the world is that?

On a sidenote: any story about a dude managing to swoop a Chinese bride from the Mainland online should be taken with a pinch, I mean a truckload of salt.

Unless you imply that dumpster diving is okay.

This ain't 2003 anymore, it's 2020. Times have changed. There is a surplus of wealthy, achieving, smart and dedicated Chinese men looking for a bride themselves. You can't outmoney them (the only thing that really matters in a Chinese marriage). Unless you make 6 figures yourself of course, but why the hell would you come to Chinese for a bride if you are that rich anyway

The only girls that are still interested in marrying laowai anno 2020 are illiterate village girls and expired left over women. The bottom of the barrel. And maybe the occult psycho or ex-hooker that no local guy would dare to present to his family

Some of the others might be interested in a fling or an affair but marriage? No way
 
Rob Banks said:
↑ Yeah, I'm sour about how bad all the girls are on the dating apps I never use.

It's not really my business what methods other men use to try and find a wife, but to ask Which are the best dating apps for finding a wife...? is kind of like asking "What brand of cigarettes should I smoke to improve my lung health?" or " What fast food chain should I work at if I want to get rich?"

What a generalization. Can't find a girl on a dating app or in a bar because they ALL have high notch count. Oh wait, it was not all about notch count, after all, lets quote Roosh instead because he has the ultimate answer.

Find a virgin girl who worships God. How can you know she is a virgin? How can you know she has never used a dating app? How can you know she hasn't been going to a bar? We should go to some Amish paradise to find this.

A healthy relationship is built on trust, even your church girl can be a little lier.
 

Rob Banks

Pelican
KingKrule said:
Find a virgin girl who worships God. How can you know she is a virgin? How can you know she has never used a dating app? How can you know she hasn't been going to a bar? We should go to some Amish paradise to find this.

Because...

KingKrule said:
A healthy relationship is built on trust...
 

Rob Banks

Pelican
I never said he can't. I was just pointing out your contradiction from your previous post.

But, to answer your question, using a dating app or going to a bar to meet strangers to have sex with (or to "date," whatever, same difference) is degenerate behavior.

It's kind of like if a girl cheats on her husband with you and then divorces him and wants to marry you. Are you going to be able to trust her? No. The entire relationship started based on her degenerate behavior (cheating on her husband). That is a huge red flag.

In the case of a girl who goes to bars/clubs or uses dating apps, it is not as degenerate as cheating on her husband, but it is still a red flag. The entire relationship started because she decided to go looking for strangers to have sex with, and you're the lucky stranger.

There are lots of behaviors that if a girl engages in them, it is safe to say they'er not marriage material (for example hard drug use, porn consumption, excessive drinking, excessive piercings and tattoos, etc.). Using dating apps or (going to bars to meet men) is just another example of these red flag behaviors.
 
I don't think you understood my last post.

What? Are you saying everyone on a dating app or in a bar is looking for strangers to have sex with?

Why do you bring up girls who cheat? Having sex with a stranger from a bar/dating app is not "kind of like" the same as cheating on your husband. Now you start comparing girls in a bar/app to girls who cheat on their husband? Why start writing "Going to bars to meet men", couldn't you write that from the beginning instead of indicating that every girl in a bar is looking for random sex?

I thought we already agreed that not every girl on a dating app has to have a high notch count and that you can be able to trust her.

You will always find red flags want to, it's like you just bring up worst-case scenario and thinks its some kind of proof.
 

Rob Banks

Pelican
KingKrule said:
What? Are you saying everyone on a dating app or in a bar is looking for strangers to have sex with?

Yes. Either to have sex with or to "date" (i.e. eventually fornicate with).

I guess it's possible for a girl to go to a bar just to hang out with friends and not meet guys, but in that case what would you be getting from talking to her?

Not a lot of girls in bars or on dating apps insisting the guys wait till marriage.

KingKrule said:
Having sex with a stranger from a bar/dating app is not "kind of like" the same as cheating on your husband.

First you say that not all girls in bars/dating apps are looking to have sex with strangers. Now you say that having sex with strangers is OK (or at least "not so bad")? Which one is it?

If you want to wife up a girl who makes a habit of having sex with strangers (even if she is single at the time), be my guest. I wish you luck. Let us know how it works out for you.

KingKrule said:
Why start writing "Going to bars to meet men", couldn't you write that from the beginning instead of indicating that every girl in a bar is looking for random sex?

It's not necessarily "random sex." Many girls go to bars to meet guys to "date" (which means they will eventually have unmarried sex with men who they will ultimately break up with). This is still degenerate, even if it is not "random sex."

KingKrule said:
You will always find red flags want to, it's like you just bring up worst-case scenario and thinks its some kind of proof.

You're saying men should ignore what they believe to be red flags?

Too many guys fall into the trap of ignoring red flags just because the girl is so "sexy" and they don't want to give that up.

If you think it might be a red flag, it probably is. Trust your instincts and don't make excuses for degenerate behavior.
 
Yes, you might end up talking with a girl at a bar who didn't go there with the intention of sleeping with a stranger, its amazing isn't it.

Hahah, I never even gave my opinion on if it's OK to have sex with strangers or not, I wrote its not the same as cheating on your husband. You are funny tho. The question you ask for is two different things btw, I can't "choose". It's not a contradiction. If every girl who goes to an app/bar isn't looking to have sex with a stranger, it can still be OK to have sex with a stranger. Or the opposite, as you like.

I never said I wanted to wife up a girl who makes a habit of sleeping with strangers? Where do you get this from

Sex with a random guy they liked at a bar then, lol.

No, I don't say guys should ignore red flags, I say you will always find it if you look for it. If you find it, it doesn't need to mean the worst possible scenario.
 

Rob Banks

Pelican
KingKrule said:
Yes, you might end up talking with a girl at a bar who didn't go there with the intention of sleeping with a stranger, its amazing isn't it.
...

If you end up sleeping with her (whether it be the same night or after 3 dates), then regardless of whether she had the "intention" of sleeping with a stranger, she was open to the possibility.

If she is not even open to the possibility of meeting a stranger for a sexual relationship, then what is the point of talking to her? Just to be friends?

The only exception to this would be if a girl goes to the bar with the intention of finding a husband (and insisting that any man she meets wait until marriage for sex), but, realisticly, how many women like this have you met at bars (or on dating apps)?

EDIT: I just realized you were responding line by line to the individual points I made in my last post.

In the future, use the quote feature. Otherwise, your post is really hard to understand. Honestly, after reading your last post, I assumed your English was really bad (which was weird because there's nothing wrong with your English in previous posts).
 
Lol, you are overthinking way too much.

You are not defending your statements anymore, you are just going down a rabbit hole, saying if she does Y, then she is a X, and if she is an X then she has and so on....
 
Rob Banks said:
↑ If you don't want a wife at all then that's your business, but you are trying to convince other guys that they can find a good wife on Tinder.

And if you weren't implying that men could use Tinder to find a wife, then what were you saying? That men could use Tinder to find "good girls" for something other than marriage (i.e casual relationships/fornication)? That's even worse.

But I guess the fact that me and others are saying this makes this an "incel forum."
I've been used Tinder for many years in hope to find a serious relationship, but it's not happened yet
 
There are countries where Tinder could start something, because it has become that socially acceptable. They are the exception. I am not a fan at all, I regret every second spent there, but it seems like in Northern Europe all kinds of people use the app. This is however negated by the passport option, thus equating it with travelling and "recreational" time-wasting instead of real relationships.

In the same way in which many pregnancies in Scandinavia happen because of alcohol, many could happen with Tinder and alcohol nowadays. It is a very shy and careful population (when sober) so in a weird way it could work for them. However, it still destroys the market for the average honest and hardworking guy, but then again, the bar also does that.
 
Bitter End said:
However, it still destroys the market for the average honest and hardworking guy, but then again, the bar also does that.

No, it doesn't. The average Joe just need something or someone to blame for why he ended up with the fat chick.
 
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