In recent times, I've seen a pretty big overhaul in most areas of my life, which extends to the people I consider influential or role models. Strangely enough, someone who's had the greatest effect on my life recently wasn't anyone particularly famous, or some war hero, or cool relative, or something like that - it was just a dude I met at my uni tavern and became friends with. He's basically a fuck up by society's standards (he is actually in jail now), but he was just about the most alpha motherfucker I've ever met. He was charismatic, charming when it suited him, smart - especially in social situations, confident in himself, and just did whatever the fuck he wanted, without regard for the consequences. He was the kind of guy that grew up in rough areas with rougher people and pretty much had that kind of lifestyle forced upon him, but had enough social smarts to still fit in with an upperclass crowd almost seamlessly. We hung out a bit, and he showed me what living that alpha kind of lifestyle was like, giving my first real taste of what it's like to truly be a man. After that moment, I wanted needed more. This led to me look for ways to become more forceful and commanding about my wants and needs, and become more invested in my self, rather than thinking of others first - especially in my dealings with women. Eventually I followed my nose to RooshV.com, and, in turn, this forum. I haven't looked back since.
Strange how one, seemingly insignificant, person could have such a large impact on who I am.