Why are women so adamantly against male self-improvement.

[R Smoov]

Let them say whatever they want.

Life's about making them say "Wow, I fucked up" once they see you pull up in the best representation of yourself.

 

[Delta]

You probably are dealing with higher quality women who worry less about their prospects with men, so you don't deal with this kind of behavior. The kind of women I can pull now do not discourage my efforts.

I think that gets down to the root of it. I used to be extremely low on the totem pole as well, but I always chose prolonged celibacy over keeping unattractive, low-quality women in my life. The only girls I've dated for a prolonged period have been hard-working, high-achieving types who would never let themselves become even a little chubby or unfit. Needless to say, a girl like that would expect the same out of her man.

Attitude toward self-improvement probably depends more on the type of person than on gender. I could just as easily see a fat, greasy, cheeto-breath loser guy becoming insecure if his obese girlfriend starts getting her act together. I usually love to make sweeping generalizations, but claiming that "women are against male self-improvement" is way too broad of a brush even for me.

 

[Easy_C]

You made me think of another point.

Ideally women SHOULD feel some pressure to compete for you and to work for your interest. If you make them feel that way you will have less faking, better sex, and some nice perks like good cooking. If you're really good you can get them to buy you stuff.

One of the guys I worked with in the Army(deaceased now, unfortunately) used to make online accounts whilr he was deployed and game women into sending him goody boxes. There's a few guys Inlnow of back here who got women to buy then vacations and vehicles.

Only exception I can think of is if you are marrying her with intent to procreate and even then she should feel obligated to make herself the best possible wife.

Remember that despite what most women say it is still in their nature to conform to a strong male. They should always have some things to do for you and love doing things for you....if that changes it means you need to start treating the relationship as one thats in the rough.

 

[Tayo]

Women and some kinds of men (you guys call them "betas") are against self-improvement when it comes to improving your sexual value.

 

[El Chinito loco]

Women and some kinds of men (you guys call them "betas") are against self-improvement when it comes to improving your sexual value.

MGTOW in many ways is anti self improvement which is why it's appealing to some men. You don't have to work for anything or take any responsibility in your life. You can just twiddle your thumbs in the dark waiting for that moment when MGTOWs will really take over or whatever nonsense that they believe.

 

[HOD]

Its a way formal way to control men, in order to boost there average value.

If you ever get chance, to observe San Francisco, LAX or DC. You basically have fat average chicks, with a license and free rain, to simply talk shit to dudes in open public, simply because they can.

Its like being a feminist bully, they enjoy bullying men. Because they can.

If a dude starts lifting, making bank, driving a Bentley, has a beach house and travels the world. She will react with fear, because he basically broke free from the feminist matrix.

There looking for a shortcut, and guess what? its a dude there looking to control and manipulate.

Its easier to control a dude, that isn't in to reading and self improvement,

SJW chicks know they have very little luck trying to control a dude that has travel and seen the world.

 

[Organicman]

When you tell someone that you are going to improve yourself (self development) , it means you are going to rise to a new level in life hence the person you told feels vulnerable and distance cause the current you will die. Eg. Become a man. Most humans (betas/SJW/Feminists) will never process through this transition hence why these people always act like children!