Why Do Black Teens Hit on Middle-Aged White Women?

[Excelsior]

Here is my take on assimilate thing...I think "assimilate" is a poor choice of words. I think you should be adaptable and versatile. Read Roosh's recent post on being a shapeshifter.

I can pretty much hang around almost ANYONE. I can hang out with my family back east in the ghetto and get along. I can go to a 4th of July BBQ in a rich white suburb and fit in. I can be at a party with all Latinos and I'm the only black guy and still be able to talk to people. Obviously I can't talk to all people about the same things. But when you're well-rounded enough and have been used to dealing with different types of people, you project different parts of yourself depending on who you are with. It's like being culturally bilingual or trilingual. My ghetto relatives probably won't care much about hearing my hostel stories in South America, that stuff doesn't really interest them. But some white girl I met at an art show probably would find it fascinating. At the same time she probably won't care to talk about the latest Tyler Perry venture, but my black relatives would. You just have to know your crowd and be versatile enough to have different things to talk about with different types of people. Don't get me wrong, if I meet some black people who are particularly open-minded, I'll gladly tell them about the shitty hostels I slept in in Bolivia. But I know 99% of blacks have no interest in backpacking or anything outdoorsy so I don't generally bring up subjects like that, or hiking or camping, but will talk about that with my white friends.

I can agree, I think you have framed this dynamic better than I did. It isn't so much assimilation as it is adaptation and versatility one should strive for.
This will give one the ability to create the visual affect of assimilation in multiple environments, thus expanding ones options greatly.

Well said.

 

[Dash Global]

Adaption and Versatility is CRUCIAL is penetrating different races, cultures, diff types of females, ect.

You should have a wardrobe to accommodate every diff type of venue and social scene.

Developing multiple LOOKS is key.

 

[Samseau]

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[Ohiogang]

speakeasy i have a hard time believing that chárt, middle eastern females into asian guys? they tend to look down on asian guys, i have never seen a middle eastern female go out with a asian male before. i also cant believe middle eastern guys would receive the lowest responses from middle eastern girls or indian guys would because they are the exact same culture, that chárt is a load of bs

 

[Urban Renaissance Man]

I still don't see the big infatuation with white lizards that some brothers have.

There's a lot of self-hate going on within Black Americans -- and many other non-White people. They see white women, even if they're fat, ugly as fuck, as status symbols.

Personally, being Latin, I think our women -- albeit they're crazy as fuck -- are the baddest on the planet.

An average latina shuts down an above-average WASP or JAP. I know she can make me pass out either with a bad ass meal or some bomb ass pussy, and often both in the same encounter, plus her attitude towards me is "I'm so lucky to be with you Papi" as opposed to "You're lucky I took your call".

I've fucked plenty of White American chicks, but that's as far as it's going, they don't know how to take care of a man, and if you can't do that, you can't keep one, at least not one like me.

Too many years of getting their asses kissed by grandpa, dad, step-dad, and watching their mothers run over all of them, have rendered them useless except for late night love -- which usually results in some nice gifts, if you're enough of a player to ask for them.

Let's keep it 110, the majority of the dudes in the PUA/game community is White, and the anti-American women sentiment in the community is incredibly strong. These dudes in essence have said we quit on White American women, because they're not checking for Black women, and they don't really look at Latinas, Asians, etc. as being Americans, so shit, if they're passing on their own women, why are some of you so captivated by them?

They will flow to you like water once you change your attitude to something that conveys "she wants to fuck me, and fantasizes about it regularly, and if her fantasy comes true it will be even better than anything she could possibly imagine, instead of this self-hate bullshit of "I need to assimilate enough into white culture" to be considered worthy enough to get her.

You are preaching the truth like Creflo Dollar on this one!

 

[Urban Renaissance Man]

Ha! Theogreat is on that Black Power Tip.

But seriously he does sound bitter. You also come off as some kinda white knight for Black Females. Trust me...... If more black chicks looked like Keisha Pulliam as opposed to Gabourey Sidibe there would be less black dudes hopping the fence.

I know this post is days old, but I just had to comment on the Keisha Knight Pulliam compliment. That is one fine sista!! What I especially like about her is that for the most part, she appears to be 100% black, not half mixed, which means full blooded sistas out there are hot to to be had. But where oh where are they?? I would literally have to think hard and long between Keisha and Hayden Panaterria (?), who I've mentioned many times is super fine to me!

This girls looks 100% and she's beautiful

Yes, I would have children with her too! Lol.

 

[Jason Zee]

Ha! Theogreat is on that Black Power Tip.

But seriously he does sound bitter. You also come off as some kinda white knight for Black Females. Trust me...... If more black chicks looked like Keisha Pulliam as opposed to Gabourey Sidibe there would be less black dudes hopping the fence.

I know this post is days old, but I just had to comment on the Keisha Knight Pulliam compliment. That is one fine sista!! What I especially like about her is that for the most part, she appears to be 100% black, not half mixed, which means full blooded sistas out there are hot to to be had. But where oh where are they?? I would literally have to think hard and long between Keisha and Hayden Panaterria (?), who I've mentioned many times is super fine to me!

This girls looks 100% and she's beautiful

Yes, I would have children with her too! Lol.

Thats a beautiful woman. Very classy looking and mysterious.

 

[speakeasy]

Yes, I would have children with her too! Lol.

One more for you...

 

[Ohiogang]

my bad speakeasy, i got it wrong but i still think middle eastern girls would never go for asian guys over others

 

[UrbanNerd]

Those last two black chicks that were posted would be approached pretty much by any guy.

 

[Dash Global]

Yes, I would have children with her too! Lol.

One more for you...

Im not attracted to 95% of black women but this chick is HOT.

I would love for my fist sista I slayed to look like that! Prob is i dont EVER see black females that look like that.

 

[frenchcorporation]

....cos they're easy?

 

[Moma]

This girls looks 100% and she's beautiful

When we talk about 100% what are we talking about exactly? Skin tone? Because I've saw an Indian guy when I was in Detroit and this guy was as dark as the woman in the pic..but his hair was Indian and his features were Indian.

Also when I was in DR, I saw women who were dark but most definitely didn't have the typical 'Afro' facial features.

So is that what we mean, when we say 100% black?

 

[jariel]

Also when I was in DR, I saw women who were dark but most definitely didn't have the typical 'Afro' facial features.

So is that what we mean, when we say 100% black?

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/ignorance

 

[speakeasy]

Im not attracted to 95% of black women but this chick is HOT.

I would love for my fist sista I slayed to look like that! Prob is i dont EVER see black females that look like that.

Depends where you are. You might see sistas like that in Atlanta, Miami, NYC or L.A. but may never ever see one Charlotte or Birmingham.

http://hypebeast.com/forum/showthread.php?t=84590

@Moma, by 100% I just mean she looks like she could be from Africa.


un mas....

 

[Aliblahba]

Im not attracted to 95% of black women but this chick is HOT.

I would love for my fist sista I slayed to look like that! Prob is i dont EVER see black females that look like that.

Depends where you are. You might see sistas like that in Atlanta, Miami, NYC or L.A. but may never ever see one Charlotte or Birmingham.

http://hypebeast.com/forum/showthread.php?t=84590

@Moma, by 100% I just mean she looks like she could be from Africa.

I've come across to much attitude of attractive in the South to continue pursuing. I'm talking to over a dozen girls online in Ethiopia that would turn heads in the ATL. Sometimes it's just easier to head to the source.

Kenyan, Ugandan, and Ethiopia girls have striking features I've not found anywhere else in the world.

 

[Urban Renaissance Man]

Actually, the girl smiling, even though darker skinned, still looks mixed to me. On rare occassions, even a half white person can take on the color of her darker parent, yet still retain the features of her caucasion parent. So, I would not call this girl 100% black.

Indeed, very few Americans are 100% black, so even the darkest guy, with the most African of features most likely still has a white or indian great great grandparent. For the this topic, I'm using the 100% black term to describe people who's parents nor grandparents are white or of another race. Below are two celebrities that I find very attractive, and whom I consider to be for the most part 100% black. the first is a girl that I would put more in the 'something about her gets to me' catagory, and the other is without argument hot!

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I too wonder where darker skinned black women like these are hiding. I have to say that I don't consider myself particualrly go go ga ga, over white women either, since like many of you, I've lived around them all my life. I honestly date Latinas and white girl because for the most part they are simply pretty more often. A cute Latina is simply easier to find than a cute black girl, at least here in Cali. I would not be opposed to dating a hot black girl, and in many instances, would consider a coupling with someone of the same race to be an easier relationship to maintain! However, my desire for attractiveness outweighs any desire I have for keeping the race pure! Lol.

 

[Moma]

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/ignorance

Jariel, pls explain the bolded.

 

[speakeasy]

Actually, the girl smiling, even though darker skinned, still looks mixed to me. On rare occassions, even a half white person can take on the color of her darker parent, yet still retain the features of her caucasion parent. So, I would not call this girl 100% black.

I wasn't saying the second or third girl I posted was 100% black. Only the first one though looks West African to me. And also the woman I posted a few days back, the Miss Nigeria, she's 100%. She has a classic, refined beauty that's right up there with the likes of Sophia Loren in her heyday.

Indeed, very few Americans are 100% black, so even the darkest guy, with the most African of features most likely still has a white or indian great great grandparent. For the this topic, I'm using the 100% black term to describe people who's parents nor grandparents are white or of another race. Below are two celebrities that I find very attractive, and whom I consider to be for the most part 100% black. the first is a girl that I would put more in the 'something about her gets to me' catagory, and the other is without argument hot!



I too wonder where darker skinned black women like these are hiding. I have to say that I don't consider myself particualrly go go ga ga, over white women either, since like many of you, I've lived around them all my life. I honestly date Latinas and white girl because for the most part they are simply pretty more often. A cute Latina is simply easier to find than a cute black girl, at least here in Cali. I would not be opposed to dating a hot black girl, and in many instances, would consider a coupling with someone of the same race to be an easier relationship to maintain! However, my desire for attractiveness outweighs any desire I have for keeping the race pure! Lol.

I definitely agree with that last line. All things being equal, I'd probably prefer a black chic over white just too avoid the social drama, but in the end, it all comes down to attractiveness and chemistry and that wins out over all.

I also agree that here in Cali, hot Latinas are more numerous per capita than hot black girls. This gets into an interesting issue. If you were to do a tally of all white girls, Latinas, black girls and Asian girls, how many per capita of each race would be 7s or higher? While I'm sure most guys would agree that the 4 black girls I've posted in this thread are top tier, I get the feeling that everyone thinks that you can find women of equal beauty in greater numbers in other races. If this is the case, I also wonder how much does the obesity factor weigh into this. A lot of black women are simply off the table because of that. And then factor in poverty. Poor women for whatever reason tend to be uglier, I don't know why but it seems universally true across all races. Maybe more affluent women know how to fix themselves up better? So if there were as many middle class/wealthy black women as there are with whites and most black women weren't overweight, would these Gabrielle Union type chics still be considered so rare? Btw, I don't think they're quite as rare as some seem to believe.

 

[Urban Renaissance Man]

Actually, the girl smiling, even though darker skinned, still looks mixed to me. On rare occassions, even a half white person can take on the color of her darker parent, yet still retain the features of her caucasion parent. So, I would not call this girl 100% black.

I wasn't saying the second or third girl I posted was 100% black. Only the first one though looks West African to me. And also the woman I posted a few days back, the Miss Nigeria, she's 100%. She has a classic, refined beauty that's right up there with the likes of Sophia Loren in her heyday.

Indeed, very few Americans are 100% black, so even the darkest guy, with the most African of features most likely still has a white or indian great great grandparent. For the this topic, I'm using the 100% black term to describe people who's parents nor grandparents are white or of another race. Below are two celebrities that I find very attractive, and whom I consider to be for the most part 100% black. the first is a girl that I would put more in the 'something about her gets to me' catagory, and the other is without argument hot!



I too wonder where darker skinned black women like these are hiding. I have to say that I don't consider myself particualrly go go ga ga, over white women either, since like many of you, I've lived around them all my life. I honestly date Latinas and white girl because for the most part they are simply pretty more often. A cute Latina is simply easier to find than a cute black girl, at least here in Cali. I would not be opposed to dating a hot black girl, and in many instances, would consider a coupling with someone of the same race to be an easier relationship to maintain! However, my desire for attractiveness outweighs any desire I have for keeping the race pure! Lol.

I definitely agree with that last line. All things being equal, I'd probably prefer a black chic over white just too avoid the social drama, but in the end, it all comes down to attractiveness and chemistry and that wins out over all.

I also agree that here in Cali, hot Latinas are more numerous per capita than hot black girls. This gets into an interesting issue. If you were to do a tally of all white girls, Latinas, black girls and Asian girls, how many per capita of each race would be 7s or higher? While I'm sure most guys would agree that the 4 black girls I've posted in this thread are top tier, I get the feeling that everyone thinks that you can find women of equal beauty in greater numbers in other races. If this is the case, I also wonder how much does the obesity factor weigh into this. A lot of black women are simply off the table because of that. And then factor in poverty. Poor women for whatever reason tend to be uglier, I don't know why but it seems universally true across all races. Maybe more affluent women know how to fix themselves up better? So if there were as many middle class/wealthy black women as there are with whites and most black women weren't overweight, would these Gabrielle Union type chics still be considered so rare? Btw, I don't think they're quite as rare as some seem to believe.

I don't think anyone can deny that at least here in California, cute Latinas and white girls are found in higher numbers, with Latinas having a more than slight edge. Of course, this also has to do with the fact that there are simply many more white and Latina women, than there are black women. Also, one must factor in the Western Standard of beauty we've all been raised with. naturally, white and latinas hit that standard more often. Latinas are for the most part, a mixed race of women. I think we can all agree that mixed people generaly look better than people of homogonous race. So consequently, latinas, provided that they aren't thrid world hungry or raggedy, are attractive more often. Now, that's not to say that they are prettier than a pretty black girl. Just that they're pretty more often. Again, I'm talking specifically about the Western states, minus Texas. I don't know how the South or back east is getting along in this area.