Why Do Black Teens Hit on Middle-Aged White Women?

[Timoteo]

I still don't see the big infatuation with white lizards that some brothers have.

There's a lot of self-hate going on within Black Americans -- and many other non-White people. They see white women, even if they're fat, ugly as fuck, as status symbols.

Personally, being Latin, I think our women -- albeit they're crazy as fuck -- are the baddest on the planet.

An average latina shuts down an above-average WASP or JAP. I know she can make me pass out either with a bad ass meal or some bomb ass pussy, and often both in the same encounter, plus her attitude towards me is "I'm so lucky to be with you Papi" as opposed to "You're lucky I took your call".

I've fucked plenty of White American chicks, but that's as far as it's going, they don't know how to take care of a man, and if you can't do that, you can't keep one, at least not one like me.

Too many years of getting their asses kissed by grandpa, dad, step-dad, and watching their mothers run over all of them, have rendered them useless except for late night love -- which usually results in some nice gifts, if you're enough of a player to ask for them.

Let's keep it 110, the majority of the dudes in the PUA/game community is White, and the anti-American women sentiment in the community is incredibly strong. These dudes in essence have said we quit on White American women, because they're not checking for Black women, and they don't really look at Latinas, Asians, etc. as being Americans, so shit, if they're passing on their own women, why are some of you so captivated by them?

They will flow to you like water once you change your attitude to something that conveys "she wants to fuck me, and fantasizes about it regularly, and if her fantasy comes true it will be even better than anything she could possibly imagine, instead of this self-hate bullshit of "I need to assimilate enough into white culture" to be considered worthy enough to get her.

I feel you with regard to latinas. I grew up in NYC, in East Harlem (or Spanish Harlem/Barrio), so I grew up and went to school with Puerto Rican and Dominican girls, as well as black girls. I've always been attracted to them (the first two girls I really crushed hard on were Puerto Rican). There was always that something extra about them, the way they want to take care of you. The food thing is big culturally - it's one of the ways you show affection for a dude you like. In many Spanish-speaking cultures it's about keeping a man's stomach full, and his nuts drained. If they feel you've done them dirty, they may also want to take your dick as a souvenir, but you have to take the bad with the good! I've had many a discussion with black females about dating/relationships, and about the cooking aspect in particular. Most said they don't cook for a dude until they're sure he's their man, namely he's jumped through enough hoops. Of course, that's IF she can cook at all. American dudes of other races have said similar. One of my boys dated an Italian chick for a while some years ago (I mean Italian from Italy, not 3rd generation American born). She of course cooked for him, and even BATHED him. That's right. Ran his bath, washed his back, toweled him off, TOOK CARE OF HIM. I'm not insinuating that all Italian women from the home country do that, but the point is she was all about taking care of her man and keeping him happy. I can't imagine an American woman of ANY race doing that.

I think the other point being made is if it is a goal of any man to date outside his race/culture, there may be some things you need to change to make yourself more approachable and to increase the comfort level of those around you. This is true ESPECIALLY for darker blacks. I also understand how someone would object to changing what you are to appease another, because it does indicate pedestalization of white females in the context of this particular discussion. You can either adapt, or simply wait until you encounter a chick that finds you attractive the way you are.

 

[oldnemesis]

For older women, it's basically the same principle as the middle-aged white guy that goes to Thailand, except he won't take a girl shopping like these white chicks do for dudes in Africa or the Caribbean. He's not looking for companionship, while these women tend to want the guy for company also.

A lot of those dudes in Thailand are looking for companionship as well.

 

[Prowl]

Pursuant to the OP, I hit on tons of older chicks (across the race spectrum) when I was in high school and I'm Whitey McHonkeyCracker.

I don't know about "middle age" per se, but hot broads in their 20's and early 30's, sometimes teachers. The point of this, more than anything, was to impress other HS girls who were in the proximity, of course. HS chicks like HS guys who can make a 25yo woman blush.

 

[rudebwoy]

This thread is pretty much the first time I've heard black dudes can't get attractive white women or somehow you have to do something special to attract them - I find the idea not only laughable but no correlation with anything I've come across. I'm still shaking my head at some of the shit I've read here. "as the norm black dudes don't get attractive white women"

PT, I've expressed the same sentiments throughout the thread.

I just can't buy the "woe is me, I'm black, can't get non-black bitches shit". I've received clothes, food, rent money, cars, etc. from attractive non-black women, and these were women who wanted to have my kids and would write their first name with my last name in their little diaries.

Race is a hustle, one I choose to hustle past.

+1

America is one country out of many, I do not live there and have never had the desire too! There are far too many countries in Europe where I can pull top quality girls as a decent black man.

This thread makes me laugh with all this pseudo intelligent nonsense about race etc.

 

[Gariell]

I think the same can be said about other races not just black men. Asians and Indians are in the same boat as blacks as they get the below average or average white females/(females of other races), except they are even worse off because Blacks have many things working for them.

 

[Future82]

I'm black & when I was 20, I fucked a 42 year old white woman, it definitely goes down!

 

[choichoi]

I'm blackish and my ideal milf is a 30-somethin white woman. don't know why that's the case but i find that demographic really alluring... given that she's attractive of course

 

[Arado]

The bottomline is that the USA is incredibly fractured. There are multiple defined ethnic/class boundaries here filled with people who all individually hold a mutual dislike/distrust for the others over issues that run very, VERY deep and have no easy resolution.

How much of a black guy's success in Europe (vis a vis the US) is due to the exotic factor v. the "I'm not in racist America anymore" factor?

According to CIA world factbook:

Fraction of African Americans in United States: 12.85%
France: 2.94%
UK: 2%
Netherlands (caribbean) : .8%
Belgium, Spain: No Data
Germany: <1%
Italy: <2.5%

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Racism_in_association_football#Europe

I don't think I have to repost the youtube videos of how soccer fans in Europe treat their own players of different races.

 

[Exactaking]

When I was working as a cart-jockey at Target, my co-worker (about Trayvon age) would do the same thing. Hell, he'd follow chicks in the parking lot with the cart machine. He'd always talk about banging the manager, who had already hit the wall but had implants and bleached hair.

 

[brock sampson]

I think this former Miss Nigeria is the prettiest most refined dark skin woman I've ever seen.

Nigeria is full of bangers of varying shades but all hitting the same numbers on the scale. FACT

 

[brock sampson]

I think this former Miss Nigeria is the prettiest most refined dark skin woman I've ever seen.

Nigeria is full of bangers of varying shades but all hitting the same numbers on the scale as this beauty. FACT

 

[Kitsune]

Solid thread bump. I'm glad we can have this whole "why do black guys want to steal white womenz?" discussion all over again!