Why do so many white men prefer Asian women?

[iop890]

Also, the guys mentioning that many Asian women aren't feminine or submissive are right of course, but they're also not saying anything useful. It's about averages.

There are lots of short Dutch but if you were looking for tall people you'd have more luck in The Netherlands than in Bangladesh.

 

[Pendleton]

Also, the guys mentioning that many Asian women aren't feminine or submissive are right of course, but they're also not saying anything useful. It's about averages.

There are lots of short Dutch but if you were looking for tall people you'd have more luck in The Netherlands than in Bangladesh.

I also think people need to specify which group they are describing the average of. There is the average (1) Asian migrant/offspring of migrants living in a Western country, (2) Asian who speaks English, seeks to date foreign men and/or is living or has lived abroad and (3) native in a specific Asian country who speaks little or no English and who you met in an organic situation and communicate with in the local language. These are very different averages.

 

[infowarrior1]

White women + East Asian beauty standards is top tier.

Behavior especially. Beautiful women with a bad attitude is a total turnoff.

 

[MovingForward2050]

Behavior especially. Beautiful women with a bad attitude is a total turnoff.

Well, except for confident men who enjoy it as a challenge for their seduction skills. I have an alpha chad friend who loves going for that kind of female and reeling her in. But needless to say, his relationships always ultimately crash and burn.

 

[infowarrior1]

Well, except for confident men who enjoy it as a challenge for their seduction skills. I have an alpha chad friend who loves going for that kind of female and reeling her in. But needless to say, his relationships always ultimately crash and burn.

Exactly. They aren't a comfort but a curse to any Man who marries them. Who over time destroys whatever man binds himself to them. Confident Men who actually cares about sexual morality and building a family would reject such women as candidates or they should.

 

[grenade001]

Well, except for confident men who enjoy it as a challenge for their seduction skills. I have an alpha chad friend who loves going for that kind of female and reeling her in. But needless to say, his relationships always ultimately crash and burn.

I suppose he uses a washing board when doing laundry as well.

Life is too short. Time taken away to deal with nonsense drama is time taken from leveraging my strengths in servicing others that would genuinely benefit.

 

[The Resilient]

Well, except for confident men who enjoy it as a challenge for their seduction skills

Confidence ≠ masochistic tendencies . Bad attitudes can be adjusted but.... Over time it wears on you.

 

[Lime]

'Hapa' isn't really a term in Europe, but I get the meaning (half white half Asian).

In the Netherlands, there is a 350 year colonial history in Indonesia, nowadays there are all kinds of mixes of Dutch-Indonesian (the mix is called Indisch or Indo). From 1-5% to 90-100% Indonesian, with Portuguese/Ceylonese/other European ethnicities included.

Examples:

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'Hapa' sounds to me typically of a word that is used in countries without this kind of historical mixing and heritage. Of course in the USA there are Native Americans, where something similar might apply, but I don't know how that compares.

 

[fokker]

^ Eddie Van Halen was also an Indo.

Russia also has a similar concept, the Koryo-saram (half-Russian and half-Korean - the rock singer Viktor Tsoi is the most famous Koryo-saram).

 

[MovingForward2050]

'Hapa' isn't really a term in Europe, but I get the meaning (half white half Asian).

In the Netherlands, there is a 350 year colonial history in Indonesia, nowadays there are all kinds of mixes of Dutch-Indonesian (the mix is called Indisch or Indo). From 1-5% to 90-100% Indonesian, with Portuguese/Ceylonese/other European ethnicities included.

Examples:

Such genetic mixes can often result in very beautiful women... And now we have the technology for them to indulge their vanity! Lol

 

[La Águila Negra]

'Hapa' isn't really a term in Europe, but I get the meaning (half white half Asian).

In the Netherlands, there is a 350 year colonial history in Indonesia, nowadays there are all kinds of mixes of Dutch-Indonesian (the mix is called Indisch or Indo). From 1-5% to 90-100% Indonesian, with Portuguese/Ceylonese/other European ethnicities included.

Examples:

.

'Hapa' sounds to me typically of a word that is used in countries without this kind of historical mixing and heritage. Of course in the USA there are Native Americans, where something similar might apply, but I don't know how that compares.

It's a bit unfair to compare hapas to indos. The term hapa has a lot of negative connotations whilst Indos are historically seen as successful and in powerful positions.

Indos were part of the ruling class in the Dutch East Indies. Usually the offspring of Dutch fathers and Javanese mothers (njais). This was a result of the lack of Dutch women, up until ~1820 there were hardly any Dutch women in the colonies.

They were second in rank in a society that was segregated on the basis of race - with only full blooded Dutch above them. Because of their 50 percent Dutch heritage they were part of the ruling class and due to their loyalty and numerical strength they occupied the majority of the positions in the Dutch East Indies' low-level and mid-level bureaucracy

As a result of this, and maybe out of some sort of psychological need to compensate, they were often the most racist and derogatory towards full blooded natives. The Indo-European Verbond (IEV) was a political Indo party that was in favour of maintaining the stringent racial laws in the turbulent early 1900s

It should also be noted that the NSB (Dutch National Socialist Party) was by far the biggest political party in the 30s (in the Dutch East Indies). The majority of their membership in the Dutch East Indies were Indos (up until 1936 when non-Whites were banned from membership).

The Indos fled to the Netherlands in the late 40s after the Indonesian independence was crystalised by the Americans. Hundreds of thousands died in the Japanese camps and during the years of chaos and anarchy after that (Bersiap)

Due to their history they didn't come as low IQ useless parasites looking for a handout, they came with a strong sense of patriotism. They came as gatekeepers of the colonial bureaucracy and as successful businessmen. They continued that legacy in their new homeland. Indos in general are associated with success, ambition, perseverance, rightwing politics and a strong sense of community. The biggest Indo community houses in The Hague, where the older Indo women can be seen wearing pearl necklaces, silk gloves and sporting haircuts that are mostly associated with royalties from the 80s

Fun fact: both Geert Wilders and Thierry Baudet are partly Indo. That is not a coincidence.

So yes, there are hafu/mestizo/ Eurasian/hapa, whatever term you want to give it, success stories

 

[The Stronger Sex]

Hapa is a Hawaiian term for any mixed-race person. The specific use of the term for half-White half-Asian is a mainland thing.

 

[Mr.Anderson]

Let's face it, the west is doomed regarding this matter and that is what lead many to import a wife from Asia.
I think there is a lack of intimacy with women in Europe, you are never really free to say what you think or behave naturally around western girls. Even if she is your wife, she will probably dump you if you are not a progressist and have your own opinion about abortion.
Also women are progrmmed npc , they totally lack critical thinking and only value what is convienient to believe in current state of things.

 

[MovingForward2050]

Let's face it, the west is doomed regarding this matter and that is what lead many to import a wife from Asia.
I think there is a lack of intimacy with women in Europe, you are never really free to say what you think or behave naturally around western girls. Even if she is your wife, she will probably dump you if you are not a progressist and have your own opinion about abortion.
Also women are progrmmed npc , they totally lack critical thinking and only value what is convienient to believe in current state of things.

And many who imported a wife from Asia to live in the West, discovered that after a few years, she became corrupted by western culture & her new western female friends, and in time stopped being the sweet woman he originally remembered. And then next, if his smv is low and she is hypergamous, she will divorce rape him to be with younger, richer, better looking men. The key is to keep her in her own country, where the culture and her family (if it is a good one, mine is) will pressure her to behave. Nothing is guaranteed, but this will definitely help a great deal in terms of her behavior.

 

[Lazar's Twin]

Since we are on the topic of HAPAS, tell me I am not observing outliers here but so many HAPAS I know seem to have a thing for Latin, Middle Eastern, Indian/Pakistani, Middle Eastern or Mixed Race dudes.

Like it is something I have seen over the years a lot.

The hottest HAPA I know was a Chinese-Irish mix and she had a hard on for this Indian dude from Canada. The two hooked up and married a year, now have 5 kids!

 

[The Stronger Sex]

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If you think those breasts are real I have a bridge to sell you in Brooklyn. And any woman who gets hige fake ittis is not marriage material.

 

[Mr.Anderson]

And many who imported a wife from Asia to live in the West, discovered that after a few years, she became corrupted by western culture & her new western female friends, and in time stopped being the sweet woman he originally remembered. And then next, if his smv is low and she is hypergamous, she will divorce rape him to be with younger, richer, better looking men. The key is to keep her in her own country, where the culture and her family (if it is a good one, mine is) will pressure her to behave. Nothing is guaranteed, but this will definitely help a great deal in terms of her behavior.

Agreed, that's why I plan to move East in next five years, I am trying to build a career online right now and an indipendent income.
I hope the implementation of COVID19 measures will still let me enough time to do it before we go fully tyrannical.

 

[Snagglefoss]

The only women under 140lbs who showed me some attention were Asian. They are feminine, slim and cute but I prefer whites.

However.....

The only white women attracted to me (post year 2005) where obese hambeasts, often older than me and single mommies. All well over 200 pounds (disgusting).


I'm not some fat ugly munter of a guy. I'm average, 5'10 and around 168-174 pounds (been as low as 152). I don't think my looks declined drastically after age 27 (back in 2005). I'm a 5/10 so I'm not asking for 10's to fall for me, but I'm not stooping to a 2/10 hambeast that has no basic care over her weight, figure, diet or physical well being. I'd happily date a plain thin white woman or even a butterface, but they ghost me or aren't attracted to me. If the redpill/blackpill is to be believed, Intra-male competition for thin white women (including facially ugly ones) is very fierce here in the u.k (and USA, Canada, Australia). I believe it to be true; I have seen 6ft2 handsome Chads or 8/10 guys fight over 5's and 6's and even butterfaces.

There are other reasons why I'm inclined to "go" for Asians (one being that I'm single, childless, aged 42 and not getting any younger) but for sure the ugly excessive weight, attitudes and hypergamy of thin white women is why I might consider another race, or just hop it abroad.

 

[grenade001]

The only women under 140lbs who showed me some attention were Asian. They are feminine, slim and cute but I prefer whites.

However.....

The only white women attracted to me (post year 2005) where obese hambeasts, often older than me and single mommies. All well over 200 pounds (disgusting).


I'm not some fat ugly munter of a guy. I'm average, 5'10 and around 168-174 pounds (been as low as 152). I don't think my looks declined drastically after age 27 (back in 2005). I'm a 5/10 so I'm not asking for 10's to fall for me, but I'm not stooping to a 2/10 hambeast that has no basic care over her weight, figure, diet or physical well being. I'd happily date a plain thin white woman or even a butterface, but they ghost me or aren't attracted to me. If the redpill/blackpill is to be believed, Intra-male competition for thin white women (including facially ugly ones) is very fierce here in the u.k (and USA, Canada, Australia). I believe it to be true; I have seen 6ft2 handsome Chads or 8/10 guys fight over 5's and 6's and even butterfaces.

There are other reasons why I'm inclined to "go" for Asians (one being that I'm single, childless, aged 42 and not getting any younger) but for sure the ugly excessive weight, attitudes and hypergamy of thin white women is why I might consider another race, or just hop it abroad.

I am around 15 years younger than you, and have had similar experiences. While I am not a Chris Hemsworth look-a-like, I'm also not a soy boy, or someone who was aggressively beaten with the ugly stick. I'm an average looking bloke, European ancestry, 185cm (6'1"), normal weight, middle-class. An attractive women is an attractive woman in my eyes, though my preference is mostly East Asian, European, and Latina women.

My first girlfriend at 16 was originally from Hong Kong, and initially approached me. I have had other girlfriends since then were middle class East Asian women (Taiwanese, Chinese Malaysian/Singaporean), who were intelligent, feminine, slim, and came from solid families. It bewilders me how I could establish such good rapport with such ladies from those areas, yet equivalent women from a similar background to myself were so inaccessible.

My area is 90% White, and after so many instances of seeing ten blokes competing for one average White woman, I couldn't justify the unjustified competition. 75-80% of other White men my age have limited/no desire for Asian women, based on anecdotal evidence/experiences. I concluded that it would be more prudent personally to seek out East Asian women, as they are still in relative oversupply, and I can be more discerning on quality.

Despite the aforementioned, it does not absolve me of the requirement of personal development, and I hold myself accountable for advancing my position in life.

 

[Snagglefoss]

I am around 15 years younger than you, and have had similar experiences. While I am not a Chris Hemsworth look-a-like, I'm also not a soy boy, or someone who was aggressively beaten with the ugly stick. I'm an average looking bloke, European ancestry, 185cm (6'1"), normal weight, middle-class. An attractive women is an attractive woman in my eyes, though my preference is mostly East Asian, European, and Latina women.

My first girlfriend at 16 was originally from Hong Kong, and initially approached me. I have had other girlfriends since then were middle class East Asian women (Taiwanese, Chinese Malaysian/Singaporean), who were intelligent, feminine, slim, and came from solid families. It bewilders me how I could establish such good rapport with such ladies from those areas, yet equivalent women from a similar background to myself were so inaccessible.

My area is 90% White, and after so many instances of seeing ten blokes competing for one average White woman, I couldn't justify the unjustified competition. 75-80% of other White men my age have limited/no desire for Asian women, based on anecdotal evidence/experiences. I concluded that it would be more prudent personally to seek out East Asian women, as they are still in relative oversupply, and I can be more discerning on quality.

Despite the aforementioned, it does not absolve me of the requirement of personal development, and I hold myself accountable for advancing my position in life.

I've met plain skinny white women at the gym in their 30's here in uk. When I found out their names and subsequently discovered their Instagram's, they had between 7000-15'000 followers, most of them being made up of thirsty simps. This is just regular plain 5/10 women, 5 years past their prime, with boring lives and regular jobs such as retail assistant or barrista.

You can't compete with that as a 5/10 male, you have no chance. These women have minor celebrity status, have smoke blown up their ass daily and as a result will only consider 8//10 men for relationships.

I disagree with Incels on many things, but they have nailed the fact that smv is lopsided in women's favour greatly. They can date up meaning average men have to date down and go for the Orca's/hambeasts.