I am around 15 years younger than you, and have had similar experiences. While I am not a Chris Hemsworth look-a-like, I'm also not a soy boy, or someone who was aggressively beaten with the ugly stick. I'm an average looking bloke, European ancestry, 185cm (6'1"), normal weight, middle-class. An attractive women is an attractive woman in my eyes, though my preference is mostly East Asian, European, and Latina women.
My first girlfriend at 16 was originally from Hong Kong, and initially approached me. I have had other girlfriends since then were middle class East Asian women (Taiwanese, Chinese Malaysian/Singaporean), who were intelligent, feminine, slim, and came from solid families. It bewilders me how I could establish such good rapport with such ladies from those areas, yet equivalent women from a similar background to myself were so inaccessible.
My area is 90% White, and after so many instances of seeing ten blokes competing for one average White woman, I couldn't justify the unjustified competition. 75-80% of other White men my age have limited/no desire for Asian women, based on anecdotal evidence/experiences. I concluded that it would be more prudent personally to seek out East Asian women, as they are still in relative oversupply, and I can be more discerning on quality.
Despite the aforementioned, it does not absolve me of the requirement of personal development, and I hold myself accountable for advancing my position in life.