Why do so many white men prefer Asian women?

Diuretic

Newbie
1) They're not fat
2) They age well
3) They don't smell
4) They're not sluts

*I don't consider Filipinos to be Asians, they are Pacific Islanders in my book.
 
Hell_Is_Like_Newark said:
Oscar Henri said:
Here is from a Norwegian documentary called Thaifjord about Norwegian men in various ages in a small place in Norway importing Thai women so much that the place named Tresfjord now is nicknamed Thaifjord.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qL1Oq1s9gnY

And people say women are the ones race-mixing the most...not true.

There is a growing community of Filipanas in Alaska for similar reasons. Also due to the fact the there are so many more men than women due to resource industries (mining, fishing, logging) being such a big employer.. which employees mostly men.

Yeah - if you look at the vid, then this is hardly much globohomo pushing. It's just a bunch of men in remote location having severe trouble attracting women to live there. The same goes for Northern Alaskan towns. Some Asian women find that still a good life and the men are hardly the hottest chaps on the block - good providers and nothing more. It's more an action of scarcity.

It reminds me of the accounts of Wild West settlers taking Indian wives despite severe social repercussions back then. They simply had not much choice since there were not enough White women around. There are estimates that 1 in 50 women per each generation of Natives married a local back then - and this is already severe long-term to curb the population.
 

Tex Cruise

Kingfisher
Leonard D Neubache said:
There are plenty of asian women with at least some measure of bounteous curvature but reasonably speaking I've known a few guys along the road who had a fetish for the kind that appeared eternally pre-pubescent. One can make of that preference what they will, suffice to say if I had a ten year old daughter then I wouldn't leave them alone in a room with her for the time it took to fetch a couple of beers.

Why would you be fetching beers if he had an asian woman?
 

Hell_Is_Like_Newark

Kingfisher
Gold Member
Simeon_Strangelight said:
Hell_Is_Like_Newark said:
Oscar Henri said:
It reminds me of the accounts of Wild West settlers taking Indian wives despite severe social repercussions back then. They simply had not much choice since there were not enough White women around. T

The Indian women tended to like the White men more as overall, they received better treatment. When the Brits ran India, there was a similar dynamic with officers and the women (who were often employed as domestic staff.. maids, etc..). I read some accounts where the married officers wouldn't bring their wives to India because they liked what the got in India better...

When the Wild West became a lot less "Wild" White women from the East came in by first being employed by the Railroads (equivalent of a flight attendant today). For them it was a one way trip out West, as soon as they got to say California.. they went husband hunting. Many had already been writing to various men via introduction services.
 

JiggyLordJr

Kingfisher
The term "Asian women" is way too broad. There's a world of a difference between a classy Japanese girl and a tin-roofed Pinay. That being said, the average Asian woman will be of higher quality than the average Western women. Given my looks and status, I only go for upper-middle/upper class East Asian women, for a number of reasons. Here are a few:

1. Asian women smell better. I'm not just referring to their choice of perfume; Asian women have a certain natural feminine aroma (pheromones perhaps) that is very pleasant to be around. Granted, lower-class Chinese/SEA girls can tote a smelly puss from living in shit conditions. So don't go for poor women. In my years of experience, I found that I prefer the scent of an Asian women over any other type of woman. They tend to value good hygiene.

2. Asian women are more feminine. This is where many guys get trapped. If you're beta, an Asian girl will feign submission to get you hooked, and once she's get her tendrils in you, she'll eat you alive. The stories of this are not pretty (dick bitten off, no sex ever, killed in sleep, etc.) If you're alpha, an Asian women will generally happily submit to your frame, provided you have your finances together. This is super important in East Asia; without money she sees you as a loser. Provider game is strong, but she still wants an alpha. And an alpha wants a feminine woman. It can be a match made in heaven if you find a sweet one.

3. Asian women age better. This only matters if you're in it for the long game, but Asian women age way better. They tend to be more family oriented, which keeps them in the house and away from the bar. Genetic and environmental factors withstanding, she can look 20 when she's 40. It's a bit of a gamble, since some morph overnight into grannys, so looks play a big part in this. Taller and fairer skinned Asian women (my forte) tend to age much better than shorter, darker ones. They also make amazing grandparents, and will want to spend as much time with the kids as possible. Rare to see this among female white boomers.

Not sure I'd want to racemix, but in the interim, Asian women make very high-quality partners. Given the feminine-masculine polarity, it takes a higher degree of alpha to take a top Asian than it would to get a top Western girl. So if you're a masculine guy looking for a clean feminine woman, look no further than East Asia.
 

Lunostrelki

Woodpecker
IMO It's less race than culture and money. If Asians thought black people had money and status, they'd be all over them too. I know a bunch of Chinese women who are put off by body hair and body odor, and don't get Western-style conversation and humor.

A lot of white guys are used to broken families and the super individualistic women who break them. Even a modern Asian woman with a Master's degree and a high-paying job is still likely to envision herself raising kids one day.

Much of Asia is still way poorer than countries in North America or Europe, so Asian women are on the whole still a lot more open to dating white guys simply because they're white and speak English.

Another thing which I think is more ingrained is that Asian girls, especially FOBs, are fine with a nerdy and introverted husband. At least when I was growing up (90s, 00s), a bunch of hard-working but socially awkward "nice guys" in the West who were totally unappreciated by white women. But if these guys would be seen as completely normal, above average even, if they were born in Asia.

JiggyLordJr said:
The term "Asian women" is way too broad. There's a world of a difference between a classy Japanese girl and a tin-roofed Pinay.
Northeast Asians are basically the equivalent of white people in that continent which should be no surprise since they are literally pale-skinned. SE Asia is their Latin America.

Once East Asian societies become affluent they seem to become as ethnocentric as Americans. When I went to Japan last year the only people I met who spoke decent English were the customs personnel at the airport and a couple of middle-aged men. Also, I didn't notice that many WMAF couples, at least not more than the other way around.
 

Hermetic Seal

Kingfisher
Gold Member
Back in the day I was really into Japanese girls, but I'd always been attracted to girls with the dark hair/light skin look, so my "type" was much more common amongst Asians.

Very politically incorrect observation, I know, but I found fair-skinned Japanese and Korean girls vastly better looking than Chinese and especially Filipino (I agree that they're more Pacific Islander than Asian, though there are a lot of Chinese-descended there.) Japanese and Koreans are a tough nut to crack, their societies are affluent and they don't have much need to date foreigners, at least not the attractive ones. Most white-guy-Japanese-girl couples I've seen have not really been the cream of the crop of either.

My wife is Brazilian (white, with Mediterranean features), and she has the same light skin/dark hair thing going on.
 

GucciJ

Newbie
Hmmmmm did some of you not run into any Asian chicks whilst at college? They are literally some of the sluttiest girls you will find.

Plus most campuses will have HiSo/middle class asians from overseas, who most of you have put on a pedestal of being "less slutty" and "harder" when in reality, they come to the west to slut it out before returning home and getting scooped up by some beta asian dude or white guy who thinks he's got some sort of prized, submissive angel.

Also, if you are a male lacking status, which this thread has decided to be the vertical to be chasing asian girls, I will tell you now to not even bother going overseas to pursue (unless you go to some shitty SEA country to bang whores).

With an asian girl, especially as a non asian male, you will always come second to her family. HiSo families will find it very difficult to accept you regardless of you status.

Low status men: Your best bet is to find a darker skinned asian, she will literally throw herself at you in hopes of having a fairer skinned baby.

One thing I did notice after reading comments is that while some of you have shown preference for Latina girls, most of you are sleeping on Middle Eastern girls. They are sexy, feminine and will treat you like the king that you are. But again, low status males need not apply ;)
 
Tasi said:
> Most of the time they are thin (though this is changing), with many being into fitness.
> They value K selection traits (good education, home duties, cooking, etc) vs R traits (white girls acting more like black girls - look at single parent stats)
> They are attracted to and value white guys (due to education, tall), meaning they want to do better (and not just party, etc).
> They tend not to believe the feminist bs (there idea of feminism is the guy doesn't slap them around, gamble and hopefully doesn't cheat.. a lot)

All of that is true for eastern european girls. Im curious to why once the western guy gets tired of western white women, his first instinct is to go to thailand, not a country like serbia or bulgaria

I dont consider asian girls to be all that ttractive, I prefer slavic girls
 

TheMost

Robin
RobertBryce said:
All of that is true for eastern european girls. Im curious to why once the western guy gets tired of western white women, his first instinct is to go to thailand, not a country like serbia or bulgaria

I speculate that the reason has to do with smell as well as image. Cabbage and garlic isn't an attractive combination to most Western men. Not when you're kissing. Likewise those odors on their own. Coconut, basil and cilantro are much nicer odors. Also it could be image. Think of Russian women, it isn't a hot young woman in a bikini that comes to mind. It is a severe doctor in glasses. Or toothless babushka. When Western man thinks of Asian women, he thinks of young, slender, high cheekbones, long hair, quiet and modest but not inhibited.

Smell may be a similar reason so few men go to India to hunt for a wife. Not that the Indian women aren't willing and available, but, while curry is delicious to eat, it isn't romantic to smell when kissing.
 

Elmore

Kingfisher
i honestly think i've always been on some level genetically racist, in a healthy kind of way. i just have never had any real interest in pursuing non-euro descended women. having said that i find some Japanese / Korean to be attractive, much more so than the SEA's, and much, much, much more than black women.
 
TheMost said:
You think all russian women smell like cabbage and garlic? Ive been living here for 6 years and most young women here are incredibly fit and healthy, they use perfumes and have a great body hygene. Now I once lived in a dormitory in Germany with some vietnamese students and the smell of their food was just toxic to me. I guess you hate cabbage but dont mind chinese girls eating poisomous bats huh
Also it could be image. Think of Russian women, it isn't a hot young woman in a bikini that comes to mind. It is a severe doctor in glasses. Or toothless babushka. When Western man thinks of Asian women, he thinks of young, slender, high cheekbones, long hair, quiet and modest but not inhibited.[/quote]

Slender, modest with high cheekebones is a very accurate description of women from places like Volgograd or Samara. There are some babushkas here, they grew old in the poverty and oppression of Soviet Union, no wonder they look like shit. If a fit healthy russian girl gets a chance to grow old with a decent husband in a decent country she ll age gracefully. But hollywood continues to portray negative images of EE women to westerners. EE women arent even allowed to come work and live in the USA like that to contradict the negative stereotype. Meanwhile a mediocre thai bar girl can use the positive promotion and protection from racism she gets in the west and bag herself a rich huband. western men allowed latinas, african girls and asians to come to the US by millions while blocking FSU women and negatively stereotyping them.

[/quote]Smell may be a similar reason so few men go to India to hunt for a wife. Not that the Indian women aren't willing and available, but, while curry is delicious to eat, it isn't romantic to smell when kissing.
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I find the smell of most asian cuisines disgusting. Russian food tastes and smells like German food to me, no difference there
 
FSU women mostly look sickly and have strange genetics. Brittle frizzy hair, sickly palor, often cold and aggressive personality. They also fall apart appearance wise at age 30.

Ukrainian are a better mix but generally FSU women come off as low and cheap to more refined western guys and they require rock solid frame which you will not get from beta bucks + they think westerners are soft and their culture > our culture.
 
SomeOneSomeWhere said:
FSU women mostly look sickly and have strange genetics. Brittle frizzy hair, sickly palor, often cold and aggressive personality. They also fall apart appearance wise at age 30.

Ukrainian are a better mix but generally FSU women come off as low and cheap to more refined western guys and they require rock solid frame which you will not get from beta bucks + they think westerners are soft and their culture > our culture.

to each his own. I bet you never visited Russia. Try going to Krasnodar, Volgograd or Nizhny Novgorod in summer and youll be amazed how good the women look. thai chicks hopping in bed with a farang on a first night seem way more cheap to me.
its crazy how white westerners are willing to shit on their own white women... no wonder here in Russia some women prefer asian and muslim guys to white men. good luck in Asia just make sure you dont catch some ugly virus or an std when visiting the worlds greatest brothell
 

TheMost

Robin
@RobertBryce you asked, I answered. I was speaking of stereotypes and perceptions. Most white western men haven't been overseas or to the FSU. The perceptions aren't necessarily accurate or up to date. But the perceptions are there, and they explain the behavior of men going for asian women over fsu women. And yes, asian food can smell pretty gross once you get past the things served in western restaurants. Perception vs reality.
 

Winston84

Pigeon
TheMost said:
RobertBryce said:
All of that is true for eastern european girls. Im curious to why once the western guy gets tired of western white women, his first instinct is to go to thailand, not a country like serbia or bulgaria

I speculate that the reason has to do with smell as well as image. Cabbage and garlic isn't an attractive combination to most Western men. Not when you're kissing. Likewise those odors on their own. Coconut, basil and cilantro are much nicer odors. Also it could be image. Think of Russian women, it isn't a hot young woman in a bikini that comes to mind. It is a severe doctor in glasses. Or toothless babushka. When Western man thinks of Asian women, he thinks of young, slender, high cheekbones, long hair, quiet and modest but not inhibited.

Smell may be a similar reason so few men go to India to hunt for a wife. Not that the Indian women aren't willing and available, but, while curry is delicious to eat, it isn't romantic to smell when kissing.

Smell? Bwhahaha what an odd conclusion to come to.

Places like Thailand are just more geared up for easy travel. Its a country on a lot of peoples bucket lists, its still perceived as a cheap country to visit (its not) and it offers warm weather, good food and nice beaches. Outside of spending your days trying to meet women there is a bit to do. Eastern Europe is off the beaten track for a lot of people so its not an easy trip for those who have not traveled much, especially if they are going solo.

Sadly the main reason a lot of these guys are going there is because they are whore mongers hunting for a good girl on the side I think. I have no idea what any western guy finds appealing about Thai women if its a LTR that they are looking for. The cultural differences are immense.
 

PixelFree

Kingfisher
RobertBryce said:
All of that is true for eastern european girls. Im curious to why once the western guy gets tired of western white women, his first instinct is to go to thailand, not a country like serbia or bulgaria

I think it's just because they view it as the easier (weaker) option - easier to travel to and within, more signs/menus are in English, better weather, perceived as cheaper, that's where their friends went, the locals bend to their own culture more (for tourism reasons), etc.
 
TheMost said:
@RobertBryce you asked, I answered. I was speaking of stereotypes and perceptions. Most white western men haven't been overseas or to the FSU. The perceptions aren't necessarily accurate or up to date. But the perceptions are there, and they explain the behavior of men going for asian women over fsu women. And yes, asian food can smell pretty gross once you get past the things served in western restaurants. Perception vs reality.

lets not talk about what it IS, lets talk about what it SHOULD be. SEA girls have access to western men, russian women dont. are white men in the west even intereted in building strong white families? we could be working on building a cultural and economical, political bridge to EE and integrate EE women in our society. or at least not harrass/ridicule EE women and westerners who married them
 
PixelFree said:
RobertBryce said:
All of that is true for eastern european girls. Im curious to why once the western guy gets tired of western white women, his first instinct is to go to thailand, not a country like serbia or bulgaria

I think it's just because they view it as the easier (weaker) option - easier to travel to and within, more signs/menus are in English, better weather, perceived as cheaper, that's where their friends went, the locals bend to their own culture more (for tourism reasons), etc.

Plus Asian girls are percieved as easier to get and less scary.
 
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