Why do so many white men prefer Asian women?

DavidKnight

Pigeon
Catholic
Every WMAF family I've known had the problems mentioned on Hapa forums. Daughters were well-adjusted, sons screwed up and veering towards inceldom/gayness. This is with conservative "trad" fathers, too. I think the real takeaway is that there is no limit to the ability of white guys to cope on this subject. They will try and justify left, right, and center why their case is different from all the others, which I guess is just human nature. I feel bad for their sons though.
 
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MartyMcFly

Kingfisher
Other Christian
Every WMAF family I've known had the problems mentioned on Hapa forums. Daughters were well-adjusted, sons screwed up and veering towards inceldom/gayness. This is with conservative "trad" fathers, too. I think the real takeaway is that there is no limit to the ability of white guys to cope on this subject. They will try and justify left, right, and center why their case is different from all the others, which I guess is just human nature. I feel bad for their sons though.
What about when the mixed-race sons live in Asia, do they still have problems dating when they get older?
 

Going strong

Crow
Trad Catholic
Gold Member
What about when the mixed-race sons live in Asia, do they still have problems dating when they get older?
When the mixed-race sons live in Asia, they are successful modeling/marketing stars, or movie/TV stars or famous singers... "Dating" is the last of their problems, which they have none.

I might add, why wouldn't they live in Asia? The West is dead, it's that simple, and any young half-Asian teen or man, should understand this. Their future is in Asia, the West has nothing left in it.
 

MartyMcFly

Kingfisher
Other Christian
COVID tyranny. Being around the most brainwashed, atheistic materialists who are indifferent to Jesus.
Before I used to think China was awful because of how tyrannical they were to their citizens. However, we see how Germany, Austria, Canada, and Australia are treating their own citizens and we can't really say the west is much freer anymore. It is amazing and sad how fast things have changed compared to 2019.

The west may have more Christians but true Christians seem to be in the minority in many western nations as well and shrinking fast.
 

infowarrior1

Crow
Protestant
The "save face" attitude I mentioned in a previous reply is related to the fact that East Asian societies are far more hierarchical. That also explains their trust in or submission to authority and the importance attached to job titles like "doctor", "professor", "teacher" (a relic from Confucian emphasis on scholarship) as well as various honorifics they use in their languages. The notion of individual rights is virtually unheard of. The emphasis is more on your role and duties in life. You know where the bowing comes from, right? Historically they'd make apologies along the lines of "I don't deserve to live" and present their heads to whomever they'd offended.

I'm far from an expert but if any of you want to understand East Asia better, I'd recommend John Keay's "A History of China" as a starting point. China's civilizational influence on East Asia cannot be overstated. Other parts of Asia were more strongly influenced by Indian (Hindu) civilization which itself may explain (at least in part) the hierarchical nature of their societies (as opposed to Confucianism's influence elsewhere) due to the caste system, and, in some cases, Western colonialism. That applies even to Muslim nations like Malaysia and Indonesia which were previously largely under both Indian and (to a lesser degree) Chinese influence. I believe the obsession in places like SEA with White men is partly because we were once at the top of the food chain over there (e.g. Philippines, Indonesia, Vietnam, etc). In other words, it's hierarchical to them.

The downside of such a thing in a non-Christian context is that it requires surveillance by other people to ensure behavior. If no one is looking. It isn't wrong.
 

infowarrior1

Crow
Protestant
Before I used to think China was awful because of how tyrannical they were to their citizens. However, we see how Germany, Austria, Canada, and Australia are treating their own citizens and we can't really say the west is much freer anymore. It is amazing and sad how fast things have changed compared to 2019.

The west may have more Christians but true Christians seem to be in the minority in many western nations as well and shrinking fast.

The Governments aren't ruled by Christians. That's for sure.
 

kamoz

Kingfisher
Gold Member
Every WMAF family I've known had the problems mentioned on Hapa forums. Daughters were well-adjusted, sons screwed up and veering towards inceldom/gayness. This is with conservative "trad" fathers, too. I think the real takeaway is that there is no limit to the ability of white guys to cope on this subject. They will try and justify left, right, and center why their case is different from all the others, which I guess is just human nature. I feel bad for their sons though.

Didn’t know there were hapa forums. Wutang had a good post about terminally online people earlier. It sounds like your reality is at least partially molded by online interactions. As I’ve stated some time ago on here, anyone who says that something is absolutely one way, whether it’s something you should do or how something is, shouldn’t be trusted due to bias. Your post sounds like rationalization due to some unmentioned personal factors/experiences.

The half white/half Asian admixture is increasingly common and quite frankly inevitable barring social upheaval of white cultures - which isn’t happening. As going strong said, in Asia it’s beneficial for attractiveness. In the West it’s just another of many mixtures and quite frankly unnoticeable….they may appear white in some cases but typically most would assume Hispanic.

I did however decide to take a quick look online while writing this post to see what all the happa hate is about. Unsurprisingly, it just looks like another (((attempt))) to prevent white males from finding mates. There are actually people saying that if it’s Asian male-white female, mental issues for the kids are less likely (lol wut?). Also a lot of it centers on a single incident (a common strategy with other culture war topics) - that being the school shooting done by the happa kid a few years ago. Of course upon closer inspection, his family life was considerably messed up.

What about when the mixed-race sons live in Asia, do they still have problems dating when they get older?

I wouldn’t take him too seriously.

When the mixed-race sons live in Asia, they are successful modeling/marketing stars, or movie/TV stars or famous singers... "Dating" is the last of their problems, which they have none.

I might add, why wouldn't they live in Asia? The West is dead, it's that simple, and any young half-Asian teen or man, should understand this. Their future is in Asia, the West has nothing left in it.

There’s a good thread by Roosh on whether one should stay or go. Frankly, the right answer is stay for most. Even many Asians have their roots in the West, sometimes whole families immigrated together.

I know you’ve been on this forum for a while and I recall in the late 2010s how many members talked about how Asia was the future. I think by now we see that that ship has sailed. What’s going on now is global and completely uprooting yourself to go halfway across the world (to a country where you may not even know the language) makes little sense due to marginal or no benefit at all.
 

DavidKnight

Pigeon
Catholic
Didn’t know there were hapa forums. Wutang had a good post about terminally online people earlier. It sounds like your reality is at least partially molded by online interactions. As I’ve stated some time ago on here, anyone who says that something is absolutely one way, whether it’s something you should do or how something is, shouldn’t be trusted due to bias. Your post sounds like rationalization due to some unmentioned personal factors/experiences.
His post struck me as boomer rationalization using the "internet is not real life" trope. That held more water during the early 2000s, but now online and real world aren't much different. Young people are using the terminology in public he claims is only online if you pay attention to their interactions.

You're making the false assumption that I read such forums and used them as a filter for experiences in real life. I only discovered them last year by chance, but they are a reflection of the families stemming from those unions I've known throughout life. Deconstructive psychoanalysis doesn't work here, and I'm surprised to see it used on a forum of this caliber.

I never suggested it was "absolutely one way" in my post. I spoke from personal experience. For some reason this topic seems to bring out emotional extremes in certain white dudes.

I did however decide to take a quick look online while writing this post to see what all the happa hate is about. Unsurprisingly, it just looks like another (((attempt))) to prevent white males from finding mates.

Wait, the Jews want to prevent white men from race-mixing? That's actually hilarious. You win the internet today. :laughter:
 

Wutang

Hummingbird
Gold Member
Most people are online now but that doesn't mean certain online subcultures are mainstream. Most people's online behavior is limited to the usual TikTok, Twitter, Facebook and such. People are going to be watching TikTok dances - not talking about looksmaxing or Christmas "elves". Even words like "incel" are going to be a mystery to them. The one time I did hear some zoomers (another term that most people aren't going to be aware of - even if they are zoomers themselves) use the word incel it was from these gamer girls who in the same conversation were talking about VRchat and some subreddits they post on. In other words they aren't your typical mainstream teens. It would be like observing the groypers and assumed that was representative of the typical young man today.

There was this MGTOW/red pill guy who would go around interviewing normies and would post the videos up his Youtube channel. It's a good example of what happens when you see these "terminally online" people trying to bring their ideas to people who aren't in the same spaces in these online spaces absorbing the same ideas. None of the people being interviewed are boomers of any sort. They look like typical normie basic girls who I'm assuming are always online on their phones - only they are looking at Instagram and not talking about how they are going to get more "beta bux."

 

Dusty

Peacock
Gold Member
I live in an area with lots of hapas (California). I don’t see them as having problems. Many full Asian guys have issues though. Full asian males feel unwanted because so many Asian girls in this area date white guys, and white girls generally don’t want Asian guys. Most handle it ok but will tell you it’s tough. A few are bitter and embrace CRT, not because they really believe it, but anything to hold down the white man.

Hapa guys who are good looking get first pick of Asian girls. Asian girls who like white guys (there are legions) will often prefer a hapa even more.

The problem is if you are white and marry an Asian and have a hapa boy, there’s a good chance your grandkids will be 3/4 Asian, which looks 100 percent Asian, so your grandkids will be a different race.

Now if you have an Asian girl, it’s a different story. Hapa girls tend to be good looking (especially if the mom is good looking) and they will bag a white guy and give you 3/4 white grand kids.
 

kamoz

Kingfisher
Gold Member
I live in an area with lots of hapas (California). I don’t see them as having problems. Many full Asian guys have issues though. Full asian males feel unwanted because so many Asian girls in this area date white guys, and white girls generally don’t want Asian guys. Most handle it ok but will tell you it’s tough. A few are bitter and embrace CRT, not because they really believe it, but anything to hold down the white man.

Hapa guys who are good looking get first pick of Asian girls. Asian girls who like white guys (there are legions) will often prefer a hapa even more.

The problem is if you are white and marry an Asian and have a hapa boy, there’s a good chance your grandkids will be 3/4 Asian, which looks 100 percent Asian, so your grandkids will be a different race.

Now if you have an Asian girl, it’s a different story. Hapa girls tend to be good looking (especially if the mom is good looking) and they will bag a white guy and give you 3/4 white grand kids.

Sounds like our Davidknight poster.

I agree with your observations and the only thing I’ll add since I’m in a different part of the country is that the chad hapas will often bag a high quality white girl.

His post struck me as boomer rationalization using the "internet is not real life" trope. That held more water during the early 2000s, but now online and real world aren't much different. Young people are using the terminology in public he claims is only online if you pay attention to their interactions.

You're making the false assumption that I read such forums and used them as a filter for experiences in real life. I only discovered them last year by chance, but they are a reflection of the families stemming from those unions I've known throughout life. Deconstructive psychoanalysis doesn't work here, and I'm surprised to see it used on a forum of this caliber.

I never suggested it was "absolutely one way" in my post. I spoke from personal experience. For some reason this topic seems to bring out emotional extremes in certain white dudes.



Wait, the Jews want to prevent white men from race-mixing? That's actually hilarious. You win the internet today. :laughter:

You came out swinging in your initial post and made your stance quite clear and one sided. It’s not just white guys, but anyone who has family friends or children that are hapa who would be upset by such a judgmental polarization that does not match reality.

As dusty alluded above, it’s likely that you are an Asian male in your early 20s that has not had success with women and are using this as a scapegoat….and spending too much time online.

Since you’re Catholic I’ll assume you’re either Filipino or Vietnamese. My recommendation is to join a respective Catholic Church and become heavily involved. There is usually an excess of young women in these churches who prefer to marry within the church.

In the case that you have either already done this or it doesn’t yield results, take a look at yourself. In todays world, race isn’t a valid excuse for lack of success in finding a mate. Are you overweight? Start working on it. Don’t know how to talk to women? Although that stuff has been purged from here, there’s plenty of resources elsewhere for learning it.
 

Going strong

Crow
Trad Catholic
Gold Member
COVID tyranny. Being around the most brainwashed, atheistic materialists who are indifferent to Jesus.
There are millions and millions of good faithful Christians in Asia, mind you, and not just in the Philippines. Mostly Catholic, but one can find Orthodox churches, too, or start an Orthodox community in one's favourite Asian city. That'd be a good missionary Christian endeavour.

As to Covid craziness, I think it will have to come to an end, quite soon. The normies of the world are becoming fed up with the Covid stuff. Soon the crooked Establishment will have to find a new hoax. Probably, Climate Warming Reloaded.
 

DavidKnight

Pigeon
Catholic
You came out swinging in your initial post and made your stance quite clear and one sided. It’s not just white guys, but anyone who has family friends or children that are hapa who would be upset by such a judgmental polarization that does not match reality.

As dusty alluded above, it’s likely that you are an Asian male in your early 20s that has not had success with women and are using this as a scapegoat….and spending too much time online.

Since you’re Catholic I’ll assume you’re either Filipino or Vietnamese. My recommendation is to join a respective Catholic Church and become heavily involved. There is usually an excess of young women in these churches who prefer to marry within the church.

In the case that you have either already done this or it doesn’t yield results, take a look at yourself. In todays world, race isn’t a valid excuse for lack of success in finding a mate. Are you overweight? Start working on it. Don’t know how to talk to women? Although that stuff has been purged from here, there’s plenty of resources elsewhere for learning it.

Nope, I happen to be white myself. I'm however surprised by the level of racial paranoia from some of the white dudes in this thread, who immediately jump to assuming anyone making an accurate observation they dislike must be Asian and/or Jewish. Bad form, but I guess the truth is hard to accept in clown world.

Since we're on the subject of Red Pill self-improvement, the easily offended chaps here ought to work on "maintaining frame" and controlling their emotions. If you get thrown off kilter by something minor you will likely be turned into a doormat husband, regardless of whether the the woman is traditional or not. I will pray for you guys to have wisdom in that regard.
 

Good_Shepherd

Robin
Other Christian
Seriously, I see many white men who says Asian women are better than white women. Not only that they are less feminist and better wifes, but also that they are more beautiful.

I think it was Simon Strangelight who said Nordic women are the best looking in the world. So why do many Nordic men prefer Asian women?

Here is from a Norwegian documentary called Thaifjord about Norwegian men in various ages in a small place in Norway importing Thai women so much that the place named Tresfjord now is nicknamed Thaifjord.


And people say women are the ones race-mixing the most...not true.
Haha I watched the trailer with my wife, she said those men would never be able to have scored such good looking woman of their own race haha, did you see that guy with the ear ring and the fat guy? Those Thai woman come from very poor places so its heaven for them.
 

MartyMcFly

Kingfisher
Other Christian
Haha I watched the trailer with my wife, she said those men would never be able to have scored such good looking woman of their own race haha, did you see that guy with the ear ring and the fat guy? Those Thai woman come from very poor places so its heaven for them.
It depends on personality and maturity also. Harvey Weinstein was fat and pretty sloppy looking and he had attractive wives and girlfriends from his own race and we can find many other examples. Perhaps he is humorous or has a lot of charisma. Some women may look at a fat man as being able to protect her and find it attractive. It is crazy how people can let themselves go like this though because he is a walking heart attack risk and has a high chance of dying before age 60 at this rate.

If the women were previously married, it lowers their attractiveness in many cultures (I have heard Thailand is one of them) and reduces their options.

We have to be careful with only comparing looks although it is a factor. We also need to think about values and personality matches. The younger man made a good point of really considering that it will be a challenge for her and that he wants to help make sure she likes Norway. It will be important to introduce her to cultural norms and help her find hobbies to avoid feeling bored or anxious. Hopefully the other men also recognize this.
 

thetruewhitenorth

Woodpecker
Orthodox
It depends on personality and maturity also. Harvey Weinstein was fat and pretty sloppy looking and he had attractive wives and girlfriends from his own race and we can find many other examples. Perhaps he is humorous or has a lot of charisma. Some women may look at a fat man as being able to protect her and find it attractive. It is crazy how people can let themselves go like this though because he is a walking heart attack risk and has a high chance of dying before age 60 at this rate.

If the women were previously married, it lowers their attractiveness in many cultures (I have heard Thailand is one of them) and reduces their options.

We have to be careful with only comparing looks although it is a factor. We also need to think about values and personality matches. The younger man made a good point of really considering that it will be a challenge for her and that he wants to help make sure she likes Norway. It will be important to introduce her to cultural norms and help her find hobbies to avoid feeling bored or anxious. Hopefully the other men also recognize this.

I dont think Harvey Weinstein is a good example. He was a man of power and high status. Thus some attractive young women were attracted to that, not his personality.

Also, most of the women who were with him were not of his own race. They were fallen, white women, he was a perverted Jewish man.
 
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