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"Why Happy People Cheat": 10,000 words, and all it spells is 'hypergamous narcissism'
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<blockquote data-quote="Leonard D Neubache" data-source="post: 1130642" data-attributes="member: 11069"><p><strong>RE: "Why Happy People Cheat": 10,000 words, and all it spells is 'hypergamou...</strong></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I was only on my phone when I wrote the first reply so I thought it would be worthwhile to flesh out the premise behind my (so far very successful) approach.</p><p></p><p>For a start, we're not talking about how to run a society. We're talking about how to get inside a woman's mind and fuck around with her risk/reward sensors. When you're with a woman, never confuse these two goals. What are you trying to achieve? A lecture on truth and justice or a favourable outcome from a highly illogical and emotional creature?</p><p></p><p>You've got to focus on your goal.</p><p></p><p>When you're in an LTR, threatening to kill your spouse is unsurprisingly a bad way to enhance pair-bonding. It could possibly work to keep her in line, but only if you want your relationship to be very cold and businesslike (not a win IMO).</p><p></p><p>Alternately, threatening violence against another man <em>because</em> of her reinforces the idea that you're capable of said violence and that you feel passionately enough about her <em>to engage</em> in said violence. Cave man game applied.</p><p></p><p>"But wait, Leonard! Isn't that just going to make her act up so you'll do stupid shit to prove how much you love her?"</p><p></p><p>A valid observation, which is why you add the "explain to the kids why daddy is in jail for 25 to life" bit. Few people really take death threats to heart. It's a light-switch penalty that you suffer once, fairly quickly, and then it's over. However the threat of spending the rest of your life being the woman who's baby-daddy is in jail 'cause he killed a guy and who's kids hate her because she's a cheating whore that ruined all their lives? That's the kind of spectre that will actually loom over a woman in a serious way. It hits all the right triggers. Preservation of her children. Preservation of her income. Preservation of her reputation. All of which would be tarnished for decades if not the rest of her life. </p><p></p><p>Suddenly the risk/reward for letting her hamster run free dramatically tips back in favour of caging that little bastard.</p><p></p><p>As for the fictional player tapping your wife? Who gives a shit. He's a fictional character. A figment of her imagination. I'm not actually telling you guys to go kill some dude who fucked your wife. I'm telling you how to re-wire your wife's brain in order to ward against the issue coming up in the first place.</p><p></p><p>First sentence:</p><p></p><p></p><p>Mind games, bros.</p><p></p><p>[img=200x200]<a href="https://media.giphy.com/media/orx1z5CGPQcLu/giphy.gif[/img]" target="_blank">https://media.giphy.com/media/orx1z5CGPQcLu/giphy.gif[/img]</a></p><p></p><p>Mind games.</p><p></p><p>All for the good of the tribe.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Leonard D Neubache, post: 1130642, member: 11069"] [b]RE: "Why Happy People Cheat": 10,000 words, and all it spells is 'hypergamou...[/b] I was only on my phone when I wrote the first reply so I thought it would be worthwhile to flesh out the premise behind my (so far very successful) approach. For a start, we're not talking about how to run a society. We're talking about how to get inside a woman's mind and fuck around with her risk/reward sensors. When you're with a woman, never confuse these two goals. What are you trying to achieve? A lecture on truth and justice or a favourable outcome from a highly illogical and emotional creature? You've got to focus on your goal. When you're in an LTR, threatening to kill your spouse is unsurprisingly a bad way to enhance pair-bonding. It could possibly work to keep her in line, but only if you want your relationship to be very cold and businesslike (not a win IMO). Alternately, threatening violence against another man [i]because[/i] of her reinforces the idea that you're capable of said violence and that you feel passionately enough about her [i]to engage[/i] in said violence. Cave man game applied. "But wait, Leonard! Isn't that just going to make her act up so you'll do stupid shit to prove how much you love her?" A valid observation, which is why you add the "explain to the kids why daddy is in jail for 25 to life" bit. Few people really take death threats to heart. It's a light-switch penalty that you suffer once, fairly quickly, and then it's over. However the threat of spending the rest of your life being the woman who's baby-daddy is in jail 'cause he killed a guy and who's kids hate her because she's a cheating whore that ruined all their lives? That's the kind of spectre that will actually loom over a woman in a serious way. It hits all the right triggers. Preservation of her children. Preservation of her income. Preservation of her reputation. All of which would be tarnished for decades if not the rest of her life. Suddenly the risk/reward for letting her hamster run free dramatically tips back in favour of caging that little bastard. As for the fictional player tapping your wife? Who gives a shit. He's a fictional character. A figment of her imagination. I'm not actually telling you guys to go kill some dude who fucked your wife. I'm telling you how to re-wire your wife's brain in order to ward against the issue coming up in the first place. First sentence: Mind games, bros. [img=200x200][URL]https://media.giphy.com/media/orx1z5CGPQcLu/giphy.gif[/img][/URL] Mind games. All for the good of the tribe. [/QUOTE]
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