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<blockquote data-quote="Ranch Hand" data-source="post: 1130643" data-attributes="member: 12593">RE: &quot;Why Happy People Cheat&quot;: 10,000 words, and all it spells is 'hypergamou...We saw two therapists in trying to save our doomed marriage.&nbsp; In a private session with the (thankfully older, male, conservative) therapists, they each admitted to me the following therapist &quot;axiom of truth:&quot;Whoever is most willing to leave the relation, whoever is the one saying no (primarily in sex, but also other matters): this is the person with ALL the power.Women inherently/naturally learn (if not consciously cognitive to it, then instinctively) the Game.&nbsp; They live this shit.&nbsp; While you and your young bros are talking about camping, dirtbikes, and ball games, they are in a roomfull of BFFs going over this stuff - from a much earlier age than most men.&nbsp; Young Becca is asking Betty: &quot;who has the upper hand in Brianna and Billy's relation?&quot;&nbsp; They live for this stuff.&nbsp; Men learn it late - usually the hard way.Married Men: which one are you?&nbsp; Are you the one saying no or are you being rejected?&nbsp; Who has that power?&nbsp; How is it being wielded against you?&nbsp; Once you regain that power, how will you use it?&nbsp; As a player/tyrant, or as a steward and leader that leads his little tribe properly?I applaud Goodington for getting it right.&nbsp; You probably saved your marriage - for the better of all involved.&nbsp; I sure wish ROK/RVF/RedPill were around before it was way too late in my marriage.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Ranch Hand, post: 1130643, member: 12593"] [b]RE: "Why Happy People Cheat": 10,000 words, and all it spells is 'hypergamou...[/b] We saw two therapists in trying to save our doomed marriage. In a private session with the (thankfully older, male, conservative) therapists, they each admitted to me the following therapist "axiom of truth:" Whoever is most willing to leave the relation, whoever is the one saying no (primarily in sex, but also other matters): this is the person with ALL the power. Women inherently/naturally learn (if not consciously cognitive to it, then instinctively) the Game. They live this shit. While you and your young bros are talking about camping, dirtbikes, and ball games, they are in a roomfull of BFFs going over this stuff - from a much earlier age than most men. Young Becca is asking Betty: "who has the upper hand in Brianna and Billy's relation?" They live for this stuff. Men learn it late - usually the hard way. Married Men: which one are you? Are you the one saying no or are you being rejected? Who has that power? How is it being wielded against you? Once you regain that power, how will you use it? As a player/tyrant, or as a steward and leader that leads his little tribe properly? I applaud Goodington for getting it right. You probably saved your marriage - for the better of all involved. I sure wish ROK/RVF/RedPill were around before it was way too late in my marriage. [/QUOTE]

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