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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Elicola" data-source="post: 1546916" data-attributes="member: 23914">It is obviously a major problem when your partner does not share religious views.  You can't contain your resentment for 18 years, and the kids will feel it.  You need to talk with your priest or pastor.After graduation, she will need to take a demanding medical residency.  She could easily postpone the marriage until after residency, let you pay her student loans, and then dump you for an older doctor.  Without a legal marriage, you are entitled to child support, but not alimony.  Do not pay her student loans!  She will eventually make a lot more money, and you must protect yourself (and the kids).  After you talk with your priest, I suggest a precautionary talk with a lawyer.</blockquote>