Is this inevitable in every marriage After a few years?
Specially after birth?
Should a man with kids cheat or divorce to get His needs? Splitting Up a family is not Good.
Only if a few minutes of pleasure matter more than having a family.Should a man with kids cheat or divorce to get His needs?
Not that I defend cheating or anything, but dismissing sex as only a moment of pleasure completely diminishes the importance of physical intimacy in a relationship. Sex might be the root of his discontent, but the whole marriage has a problem.I've read after birth women get depressed. It's something we don't understand but we should be empathy. Maybe you're thinking too much about 10 seconds of orgasm pleasure, but not enough about taking care of your family.
Only if a few minutes of pleasure matter more than having a family.
How? She doesnt want..and IF she agrees its lame and boring. And its once every week or two weeks. Far away from My apetite. A healthy marriage is atleast 3 Times per week
I've read after birth women get depressed.
Ive has multiple akward conversation.dread gamed.lost weight and became fitter but No matter what she doesnt have interest in sex upp like before the marriage. She says she doesnt Enjoy it and she is happy without it.she says its painful IF i go Hard.feels nothing IF i go soft. even IF we have nothing for 3 months she doesnt careSo you and your wife aren't having very much sex. There is one important question that needs to be asked?
Does she see this as a problem?
Lots of things will crater a person’s sex-drive: self-esteem issues, stress at work or at home, no sleep, depression, alcohol and medications, etc. When you’re talking about a marriage though, in my experience, it's usually the boredom and familiarity that comes with many passionate relationships cooling down over time.
It could also be they’re not interested in sex with you.
It’s one thing if your spouse was being an equal partner in attempting to get your sex-life back on track. It’s another entirely when it seems like she simply has no interest in trying to fix the situation. And that’s a problem.
Ask this question, and be ready to have that awkward conversation with her.