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<blockquote data-quote="MovingForward2050" data-source="post: 1346691" data-attributes="member: 18126">This psychologist, Dr. Grande, who I usually find fairly liberal, was surprisingly tough on Jada, as he reviewed the famous couple's interaction. I have noticed a number of counseling professionals saying using the word &quot;entanglement&quot; is being deceptive, and the proper term would be AFFAIR.Psychologists are saying that she took advantage of a young (but legal) man who was in a bad mental state, and if this had been her husband with a young (but legal) young woman, Will Smith would have been crucified by the media, and suffered a heavily damaged career.The &quot;bad marriage for life!&quot; mantra at the end, where they fist bumped, definitely does not bode well for the marriage. As the psychologist says in the video, having a fatalistic attitude about one's marriage, as Will and Jada have, is a bad thing which will only add the the pain of a dysfunctional relationship.Finally, despite the fact that they were separated during her affair, she was very defiant about what happened, and certainly not repentant. And she did not seem caring/empathetic to what Will was experiencing, due to her words and actions. Some counselors think this video could worry men, who will wonder if Jada's attitude will embolden western women to feel like they have the right to &quot;take a break&quot; and then sleep around as they please. [MEDIA=youtube]M5bRwie70eY[/MEDIA]</blockquote>

[QUOTE="MovingForward2050, post: 1346691, member: 18126"] This psychologist, Dr. Grande, who I usually find fairly liberal, was surprisingly tough on Jada, as he reviewed the famous couple's interaction. I have noticed a number of counseling professionals saying using the word "entanglement" is being deceptive, and the proper term would be AFFAIR. Psychologists are saying that she took advantage of a young (but legal) man who was in a bad mental state, and if this had been her husband with a young (but legal) young woman, Will Smith would have been crucified by the media, and suffered a heavily damaged career. The "bad marriage for life!" mantra at the end, where they fist bumped, definitely does not bode well for the marriage. As the psychologist says in the video, having a fatalistic attitude about one's marriage, as Will and Jada have, is a bad thing which will only add the the pain of a dysfunctional relationship. Finally, despite the fact that they were separated during her affair, she was very defiant about what happened, and certainly not repentant. And she did not seem caring/empathetic to what Will was experiencing, due to her words and actions. Some counselors think this video could worry men, who will wonder if Jada's attitude will embolden western women to feel like they have the right to "take a break" and then sleep around as they please. [MEDIA=youtube]M5bRwie70eY[/MEDIA] [/QUOTE]

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