JiggyLordJr
Kingfisher
Haven't posted anything relationship-related since the new rules went into effect. Figured now's a good time to do so.
How does one distinguish between a woman they like spending time with vs. a woman who's marriage material? If you looked at it as a venn diagram, I'm sure there'd be a lot of overlap between the two, but it's likely not 1:1. If a woman is good company (no attitude, friendly demeanor, can joke with, etc.) is she likely good marriage material? The Happy Gene comes to mind when describing this archetype. Thing is, I wouldn't want to be blindsided by a crazy chick who is deceptively pleasant. At the same time, I might be overthinking a simple green flag that could be grounds for family creation. You see my dilemma now.
Spending time with women who range from neutral (at-best) to unpleasant (at-worst) is... unpleasant. And a lot of them are hot, which kinda sucks. My experience with these type of women (and they're usually Western) is that 30 minutes into a meet I either want to blow my brains out or am busy thinking how to avoid future plans outside the bedroom.
On the flip side of this, some of the most fulfilling and wholesome relationships I've had were with girls I genuinely enjoyed spending time around. Is there a connection between the two?
Basically wondering if a nicer personality in women correlates to better potential marriage quality. What do you guys think?
How does one distinguish between a woman they like spending time with vs. a woman who's marriage material? If you looked at it as a venn diagram, I'm sure there'd be a lot of overlap between the two, but it's likely not 1:1. If a woman is good company (no attitude, friendly demeanor, can joke with, etc.) is she likely good marriage material? The Happy Gene comes to mind when describing this archetype. Thing is, I wouldn't want to be blindsided by a crazy chick who is deceptively pleasant. At the same time, I might be overthinking a simple green flag that could be grounds for family creation. You see my dilemma now.
Spending time with women who range from neutral (at-best) to unpleasant (at-worst) is... unpleasant. And a lot of them are hot, which kinda sucks. My experience with these type of women (and they're usually Western) is that 30 minutes into a meet I either want to blow my brains out or am busy thinking how to avoid future plans outside the bedroom.
On the flip side of this, some of the most fulfilling and wholesome relationships I've had were with girls I genuinely enjoyed spending time around. Is there a connection between the two?
Basically wondering if a nicer personality in women correlates to better potential marriage quality. What do you guys think?