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<blockquote data-quote="Deusleveult" data-source="post: 1369093" data-attributes="member: 16454">A big part that play in their transformation (in the case of girls coming from a good and stable family) is guilt. As children we only care about playing and having fun, we only judge other kids the following way, do I like him/her : - Yes, let&#039;s play together - No, let&#039;s find someone else. We don&#039;t think about if they are poor, or if their parents are divorced, or their parents political views, etc... And even if we know, we think about it for a minute but then resume to playing and don&#039;t care.But the adolescence comes and we start to broaden our minds. We realize that not everybody had the chance to grow up in a good and stable family. Those women were sheltered during their childhood, growing up in a nice neighborhood, going in a mostly white school with children just like them. But then high school and college comes and they come into contact with other less fortunate kids as well as TV, internet and social media where they see the poor state of the world and start to be indoctrinated.Then the devil starts to whisper in their ears telling them : &quot;See how good you have it in life, see those people that don&#039;t? Do you think it&#039;s fair? Do you really deserve it?&quot; Etc, etc... That&#039;s when guilt comes in. Then they start to transform themselves in what they perceive will make them fit in with the people who &quot;suffered&quot; more than her unjustly &quot;Look, I am like you, I have suffered too, I can understand you, please accept me&quot;. Let&#039;s face it, it takes strength and courage to be virtuous in our day and age. Those women are from families that set the example of it (not all of them of course, you never know what&#039;s behind the facade). On the contrary being openly rebellious against &quot;society&quot;, traditions, religion (more specifically Christianity, everything else is fine), is considered &quot;cool&quot; and the way to follow.They chose the wrong path. But honestly who didn&#039;t at this age? That&#039;s where we are the most vulnerable and our society now is ruthless with wolves in sheep clothes guiding us, we got almost no chance.We can only pray for them that this phase will be over without too much damage and go back to Christ.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Deusleveult, post: 1369093, member: 16454"] A big part that play in their transformation (in the case of girls coming from a good and stable family) is guilt. As children we only care about playing and having fun, we only judge other kids the following way, do I like him/her : - Yes, let's play together - No, let's find someone else. We don't think about if they are poor, or if their parents are divorced, or their parents political views, etc... And even if we know, we think about it for a minute but then resume to playing and don't care. But the adolescence comes and we start to broaden our minds. We realize that not everybody had the chance to grow up in a good and stable family. Those women were sheltered during their childhood, growing up in a nice neighborhood, going in a mostly white school with children just like them. But then high school and college comes and they come into contact with other less fortunate kids as well as TV, internet and social media where they see the poor state of the world and start to be indoctrinated. Then the devil starts to whisper in their ears telling them : "See how good you have it in life, see those people that don't? Do you think it's fair? Do you really deserve it?" Etc, etc... That's when guilt comes in. Then they start to transform themselves in what they perceive will make them fit in with the people who "suffered" more than her unjustly "Look, I am like you, I have suffered too, I can understand you, please accept me". Let's face it, it takes strength and courage to be virtuous in our day and age. Those women are from families that set the example of it (not all of them of course, you never know what's behind the facade). On the contrary being openly rebellious against "society", traditions, religion (more specifically Christianity, everything else is fine), is considered "cool" and the way to follow. They chose the wrong path. But honestly who didn't at this age? That's where we are the most vulnerable and our society now is ruthless with wolves in sheep clothes guiding us, we got almost no chance. We can only pray for them that this phase will be over without too much damage and go back to Christ. [/QUOTE]

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