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<blockquote data-quote="hkhathaj" data-source="post: 1339015" data-attributes="member: 16944">Akhschually having standards is a good thing for girls. I would not want my daughters to look for a husband just by following their instincts because that way they would and up in the fishing net of players. They have to have some knowledge to evaluate men who court them. The problem is that these standards should come from their father and family and not from cherry picking the attractive features of the boyfriends of her girlfriends. (As ICXC insightful comment explained.) Having these deranged standards is a sign of lack of good parental influence.Having a husband who can provide is not a sin but it is a basic expectation if a woman really wants to be a trad wife. And having attractive genetics is also a good to have. So I consider these expectations normal. But they have to be backed by her own value to be a realistic expectation: she has to be being young and virgin.These expectations that he has to be no friends and no strong connection to his family are totally ill and thinking like that is the product of an sick society. Just the fact that she has these expectations show how ruined she is. She is not just old but also she also has serious mental problems. Too many red flags to count.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="hkhathaj, post: 1339015, member: 16944"] Akhschually having standards is a good thing for girls. I would not want my daughters to look for a husband just by following their instincts because that way they would and up in the fishing net of players. They have to have some knowledge to evaluate men who court them. The problem is that these standards should come from their father and family and not from cherry picking the attractive features of the boyfriends of her girlfriends. (As ICXC insightful comment explained.) Having these deranged standards is a sign of lack of good parental influence. Having a husband who can provide is not a sin but it is a basic expectation if a woman really wants to be a trad wife. And having attractive genetics is also a good to have. So I consider these expectations normal. But they have to be backed by her own value to be a realistic expectation: she has to be being young and virgin. These expectations that he has to be no friends and no strong connection to his family are totally ill and thinking like that is the product of an sick society. Just the fact that she has these expectations show how ruined she is. She is not just old but also she also has serious mental problems. Too many red flags to count. [/QUOTE]

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