Dash Global said:
French,
imo people gotta dress based on the venue and target base.
Going to a gothic or metal concert suited down. People are not gonna think you are the best dressed. They are gonna think who the hell is this guy dressed like he is going to church.
Going suited down to a under 21 bar/club in a blue collar town would not be the best strategy for pulling tale imo.
Likewise you def need to be suited down with the nicest threads going to an upscale lounge or hotel bar.
All situational imo.
I recommend people to have a very versatile wardrobe of nice fly stylish threads for all main target demographics!
Unless you only target one group and of venue.
I like to branch out and sample numerous types of places and females
For once I actually agree with Dash, 100% on this one. I live in a small NorCal college town, where the prominent style I will describe as "NorCal grower bro", which probably won't make sense to 90% of you, so I'll describe:
Basically lot's of baggy jeans, hooded LRG sweatshirts, flat billed baseball caps, and skate shoes.
Now, I will admit I sometimes rock this style, albeit a little bit more pimpishly, with more OG swagger.
However, as I've gotten older and more successful, I've moved towards more of a GQ look, although I don't own a suit, so I never roll "suited down."
I'm a fan of Lacoste's clothing although I will be the first to say that it's way over priced, and is becoming way too trendy/popular (see Floyd Mayweather rocking it on 24/7 and Geoff on "Curb Your Enthusiasm).
I used to roll way more GQed down to the local bar scene, but eventually I toned it way back, because I noticed that my results were actually worse, when I dressed well.
For one I stood out, because I was THE best dressed person at the bars, but I think everyone was kind of thinking "who the fuck is that guy, why is he dressed like he's at a wedding?". In other words, although I stood out and I was well-dressed, since the mainstream "cool" style is so different, people interpreted it as "try hard", or that I looked like a "preppy tool".
I got a lot of guys trying to talk shit, and most of the girls shit tested me hard.
So basically I think you got to play to your "target audience" or your "fishbowl", or just change locations if you're just not feeling the steez.
As much of a fan of the Gmanifesto I am, there is probably only one bar/lounge in this county that I think his style would be well received at. The rest of the spots are all dominated by one of the following styles: "redneck/country/blue collar, or stoner/grower/norcal/college, or punk/metal/rockabilly/hipster".
It's nice to stick out to an extent and be the most well dressed person, but like Dash points out if you're at a punk rock/metal dive bar, and suited down like the G from MadMen, you're going to have some "congruency" issues, and you're in a fishbowl where you're style won't be well received.
Personally, I can't wait to get out of here, and move to an area with greener pussy pastures. I like the idea of rolling to the hip-hop club one night, then to the upscale lounge the next.