Yes or No. In average - wives dictate the success of a marriage/husband-wife relationship.

[Pray_Everyday]

The other was in there maybe i didn’t make it clear. They wanted women who looked prepubescent like no boobs or butt or hair. Like the boy models you see. Then I dove into the web and to see what these people wanted and liked screamed pedo to me.

Oh, they admitted to wanting women that looked "boyish" or "prepubescent"? Yeah, I didn't catch that, I thought you said it was something you had noticed.

While I'm a slim women, my body doesn't look prepubescent, and neither my husband not my ex boyfriend have liked the "boyish" build aesthetic, so that's probably why I never made the connection between the grooming and prepubescence. I did always wonder about the men that preferred that build (and I had a friend who looked no older than 12 even in her mid 20s, and she said all she got hit on by were creeps).

One time a friend came over and needed makeup stat, no clue what happened. I laughed and said I’ve got chapstick and a concealer stick I’ve had forever. Only reason for that is pimples. I know some people think only bad hygiene causes pimples but you try being very hormonal and having oily skin. It has settled down in my 40’s but it still happens and it’s not small. It’s like look we’ve discovered a planet on your face. I hear from people on the other side of the spectrum I’d rather be oily than dry, tight and flaky and I’m like oh yes I love being covered in oil! You always think what you have is worse. Cause you have it. Maybe after menopause I’ll be pimple free? Please lie to me. Tell me yes!!!!

Oily skin here, and yes, I'd rather be oily that dry. I brush my skin with a little brush and some rose hip seed oil, and that seems to keep it under control for the most part. But when it happens I'll get a random large single pimple.

No clue about menopause, but I will say that during pregnancy my skin has behaved exceptionally well compared to normal, so a hormonal change definitely affects it for the better.

 

[Atlas Shrugged]

Oh, they admitted to wanting women that looked "boyish" or "prepubescent"? Yeah, I didn't catch that, I thought you said it was something you had noticed.

Yes the weird ones or creepers. Obviously not all, but when the odd men would say they like the boyish hairless look on women I’d be like ok that’s very odd and I’m a little worried. Before healthcare I worked in finance and you’d be surprised how many weirdos work in an office. In fact my branch alone had the cops come cause one of the IT dudes was looking up preteen girls at work and another fondled kids as a teen but was all healed now. Sure Jan. Sure. Why are most IT people not right?

 

[sarmaticus]

Yes or No.
In average - wives dictate the success of a marriage/husband-wife relationship.
Men and women are not created equal.

If historical and current scientific literature, in moral judgement, presents the female nature as using emotions and feelings to determine interpersonal relationships would this suggest wives ultimately dictate the husband and wife relationship?

If we look at human nature normal men make judgments based on a dualistic approach (right or wrong); as where women (on average) base judgements on feelings and emotions. Would this suggest feelings and emotions can be adjusted in order to shape the success of a marriage – the interpersonal relationship between husband and wife.

In marriage a wife also controls decisions on childbearing – dictating the number of children in a family (if course if it is God’s will).
Thoughts?

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Proverbs 14:1​

Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.

1 Peter 3:1​

Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives.

1 Corinthians 11:3​

But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.

 

[IconWriter]

It is so easy to pull Bible verses out, and also out of context, to support various viewpoints, which is one of many reasons why there are so many denominations. The Bible also says that husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the Church. Christ gave his life for the Church. This tells me there is no stronger love than this.

(Eph. 5:25.); Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her .

And there's this one:
(Eph. 5:28.) So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.

Remember that it (love) works both ways, and a red flag is when the man starts quoting Bible verses at her to make her obey...

 

[messaggera]

Anyway, I note the article you linked to featured Depp buddying up with a convicted and released child murderer (in this context a teenager who murdered a child in a Satanic ritual).

It gets worse as Depp had a close relationship with Hunter S. Thompson. Looks like he was a satanic snuff filmmaker, and involved with the Franklin Coverup.

Randomly learned that today off another topic on this forum. The video link.

 

[Viktor Zeegelaar]

I came across this video, may be interesting to you ladies as well.

 

[messaggera]

Yes or No.
In average - wives dictate the success of a marriage/husband-wife relationship.
Men and women are not created equal....
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In marriage a wife also controls decisions on childbearing – dictating the number of children in a family (if course if it is God’s will).
Thoughts?

Yes. Here is why in one case profile.

Prior years spent reviewing family law cases there would be a common pattern with certain cases; where the plaintiff’s behaviour contributed to the perpetuating hostility of the case. Majority of these cases the plaintiff was the wife seeing a divorce. Now at the time there was a term for a certain behaviour to describe one parent who would emotional isolate the other parent from children, parent alienation. But this other patterned behaviour does not have a term.

Here is a hypothetical female behaviour:

Graduated from a secular college that contributed to cultivating a certain female mindset. Marries a man who cannot only provide financially, but to the extent of providing financially to the point of living in pleasure and comfort. Continues to work outside the home. After six or seven years of marriage she is pregnant. For whatever reason (boredom, infidelity, work relationship, lack of communication, need for sexual validation, not upholding marriage roles, fighting, marriage disagreement, etc.) marriage starts to fall apart with no communication. Marriage ends in unhappy wife files for divorce due to emotional negligence / cruelty seeking continued financial support . Which will say, an opinion, this one is highly taken advantage of giving it is bias. What is emotional negligence – it is subjective.

Here is the question. After six to seven years if this emotional negligence (“abuse”) was taken place why was the decision to have a child brought into this claimed abusive relationship, rather than separating from the husband she is accusing ? Have been told some women will have children to provide financial security for themselves if the marriage ends in divorce. This is a broken world we live in...